I'm looking for a normal boyfriend and girlfriend live together relationship. We would be there for each other in good times and bad times.
The things that I'm looking for in a woman would be someone who is easy to get along with, mellow, down to earth, honest, loyal, and caring. Physically I'm looking for someone looks pretty good in a bikini. If she's not quite there, she is willing to work out with me to get there.
Working out and staying in shape is really important to me. I don't have a lot of free time, but I spend at least an hour a day doing it. It was a habit that I got out of, and I started back up again a few months ago. I did a lot of projects in my house for the past year. I watched what I ate, so didn't really gain any weight. Working out sort of fell by the wayside. So someone who likes to work out, or who wants to start to work out to get in the best shape possible would be great for me.
I want someone who's willing to try new things on our weekends off. Aside from not being bisexual, I'm willing to try most anything that the other person can think of. I would want you to join me in thinking of new and adventurous things for us to do together.
I don't want someone who halfway goes along with my ideas, and doesn't show much interest in them. I want it to be a mutual thing, where we both think of new things to do, and we do them. And we are both totally excited and looking forward to trying everything we can. Things like making videos, role plays, public stuff, restraints, toys, etc.
I've learned from relationships in the past that they get stale. Couples get in a routine, and then it just gets more boring and more boring as the months go on. I want to avoid that. I want to have a normal relationship 90% of the time, and throw in some new and exciting wrinkles to keep things fresh and passionate.
When I was younger, I didn't do a lot of new things. I focused on my career, my life, my personality, and my goals. Now I'm at a point in my life where I feel like trying new things. I'll have the same house until I retire, and the same job until I retire. I've never been married, and I have no kids. Things in my life are in a good place, I'm set. The only thing missing is to have a partner in life that I can trust and always count on, and who wants to try to experience everything they can before we get too old.
Go for drinks, golfing, hiking, swimming, have a BBQ, drink wine in the hot tub, go for a ride, xbox, netflix, whatever. Basically anything fun, without feeling like I'm at a job interview.