This is definitely not going to be for everyone. But I'm sure there is at least one adventurous, in shape, and open minded woman on here, who is willing to try something new. Someone like me, who is sick and tired of the same old crappy first dates, the fake smile you smile when looking across the table and seeing a person who is boring you to death, who used 10 year old pictures in their profile, who lied about everything they told you, but still gets mad at you when you're looking for the nearest exit to run out of. Then you escape, and have to block them on here and on your cell, because they won't leave you alone.
I'm not doing that anymore. I've had a lot of curiosity over the years about couple's dating, and I want to give it a try. It can't possibly be any worse than what I'm doing now. A lot of people do it. You can spot them if you pay attention. They are your happy, not miserable, smiling neighbors who always seem to have company on the weekends. The ones who work out and stay in shape because it helps them attract better couples... hahaha
Seriously, I've known several couples over the years who live this lifestyle. They have passion for each other, even after years together. They have no secrets. They share everything. They aren't tempted to cheat. They live out their fantasies, instead of hiding, resisting, or burying them. That sounds perfect to me. Having to subdue things is not healthy. I'm sick of it, I want to explore them.
Every relationship I've had has become stale over time. People start feeling trapped, stagnant, and bored. You're here on POF, along with the other millions of people, so obviously it's happened with you, with every relationship you've been in, over and over again. Why keep trying the same recipe, when you get the same horrible result every time? How stupid is that?
So change the recipe, add some spices, and try something new. Preferably with me... :)
Go for drinks, golfing, hiking, swimming, have a BBQ, drink wine in the hot tub, go for a ride, xbox, netflix, whatever. Basically anything fun, without feeling like I'm at a job interview.