i must warn you there is a lot of reading here,and there is way more to me than whats posted here, please understand im trying to find the right woman for me....other subjects not included here can be discussed later!!
now id like to make a statement of some things that make me worth consideration.
1) i listen -and reply as sincerely as possible.
2) sensitive to emotion but not consumed by it.
3) im non abusive.
4) i dont cheat -seriously, im a one woman guy.
5) not a thief -but to save you.. id steal for you.
6) dont drink anymore but i can handle a few shots or so every once in a while, or for occasions!
7) i will shave if its a problem!! - there are a few reasons why i keep it #1 being a medium scar on my cheek.
8) i dont need you to support me - i have my own apt. and pay my own bills.
9) ive lived in several locations around the u.s. (nothing has been better to me than the mountains of colorado) and lived many lifestyles, most by choice.
10)no s.t.d's or major diseases, will get tested on request!
11)i try to live most moments with honor, love and respect.
12)im done chasing the rockstar dream for now -i got sooo close and got cheated -my music is for fun now!
13)were adults here -i dont post hate mail for denied requests, please dont hatemail me if i deny you.
NOW..to free up some time for some of you having to read all the way to the bottom..
1 a)if your not over a previous lover(seriously..this is a big deal in my opinion), b)if you have cheated on someone ALOT, c)if you have no guilt about flirting openly with others while in a relationship, d)if you want me to sleep with a guy(never have-never will), e)if you flaunt your body to guys frequently, or want to be 24hrs a day slutty -im not the one for you!
2 if you are obsessed (i mean OBSESSED not casual) with high maintenance shopping and can ONLY live a spoiled lifestyle ...im sorry ive been down that road before and im not the one for you!
3 if you blame almost everything that goes wrong in your life on all men, and you think you never have flaws....oh im sorry, but im not the one for you!
4 im not going to want to meet right away -its put me into some crazy situations in the past if you cant take the time to talk to me for a short while through email or instant messanger first-then some phone time...- well you may just want to look elsewhere! (ive had some very strange and scary first dates-and ive had my soul broken twice. i cant keep this going without some more serious screening)
5 i doubt ill be interested if you have more than 2 kids and- and im not here to JUST be a father to your current children -if this is your main motivation -im not the one for you!
!!seriously!! -but moving on to some random facts and good stuff. and some more of the letter I hahah
why no wife no kids so far? im asked alot...its because i chose to live more stable and responsible path more suited to better myself for such things - instead of going about it the opposite way in my opinion - thats just me -i was almost married once but thats a long story and her loss!!
at minimum i am looking for a cute and caring, slightly jealous woman to brighten my life. someone with at least a well rounded mind and decent weight and height ratio. (im not trying to be a complete ass but i do have some limits without being too judgemental)
Someone with varied degrees of humor and whos not afraid to think outside conventional terms, and still be willing to see life through other peoples perspective when neccessary.
someone who can see the true potential of my life as i see theirs.
and attraction is important to me for a real relationship ,if we cant see each other with some attraction then there cant be much romantic love.. thats just how i feel.
truthfully i need love as a reason to live -i mean TRULY live -i have tried being alone. and i once tried to settle for just being with someone i had average feelings for (nothing against her) well thats just not for me -i need that connection and power between us ,it motivates me like nothing else so, maybe thats a bad thing for you who are reading this, but id rather speak the truth now than have misinterpretations drag us down.
im a bit picky and sometimes stubborn, yet flexible on important matters. everything else i have a go with the flow mentality.
im reserved most times, yet fun and confident, and a bit serious and intense in dialogue, and yet i have a LOT of humor and immaturity but know restraint when needed! this isnt the best place for me to show my humor, because im more of a "in the moment" type of person...and im taking this online thing a bit more seriously than before.
a woman with a clever responsible sarcastic wit will make me smile everytime.
i like to have deep conversations and discussions. life is too complicated not to appreciate it and if you can always see a subject from multiple angles and viewpoints,im sure we could talk for a long time.
i have a tendancy to think alot -some say i think too much and others say i don't think enough, and i was born as such and dont plan on changing much of that part of me.
i dont let it get in the way, and i do all i can to consider your thoughts and feelings.
i love all music its been in my blood since i was a child -all types from classical to metal and rarely rap and country..its the individual songs that matter to me.
i write music in various forms, from techno/trance to guitar music, and i used to be a metal vocalist(hence the name metaldeviate= one who has deviated from metal), but i havent played a show in about 2 years for multiple reasons.
i have almost always lived in or near cities so ive only owned one car in my life -ive never had any problems getting where i need to be -and on time!!! (this might change now that more efficient cars are being mass produced)
i independently train in martial arts for defensive wishes and for arts and meditation. i am drawn to it and learned a lot from pros and others -i have created a style for myself which i work on. and no worries of abuse here ok? the only woman ive ever hit was in a un-sanctioned tournament years ago -with her and others consent and mutual respect of course!
i dont mind to do outdoors things at times,but truthfully im not really the frequent outdoorsman type recently- so depending on the people participating and whats planned i may or may not involve myself, responsibility is important!
if you have read this far thanks and good luck!
send me a message if you're interested!
a first date should be an agreement between us - though i dont mind making a decision.
public places at first though ok,
i dont need a scary date any more than you do!
im okay with all the traditional things like
maybe a coffe house or dinner and/or a movie?
a moment at a park or museum or art function?
or just make plans after meeting!
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