pawz4christ: There's always a reason to smile :)
About
Non-Smoker with A Few Extra Pounds body type
City
Lebanon, Oregon
Details
41 year old Female, 5' 3" (160cm), Christian - other
Ethnicity
Caucasian, Aries
Intent
pawz4christ wants to find someone to marry.
Education
Some college
Personality
Free Thinker
Profession
work-from-home, Mom of 1 daughter


dating
April 2017






I am Seeking a Man For Long Term
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry View her chemistry results
Do you drink? No Do you want children? Prefer Not To Say
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Brown Eye Color Hazel
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? Yes
Longest Relationship Over 2 years How ambitious are you? Somewhat Ambitious
Pets Cat  



About Me
~Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass... It's about learning to dance in the rain. Live simply, love generously, care deeply, speak kindly... Leave the rest to God~

Finally relocated to Oregon, near Albany (south of Salem, North of Eugene), from the Bay Area, California (North San Jose).

North San Jose Bay Area, CA native but have lived other places. I'm 41 and a real, spunky, quick witted, self aware, multi-faceted, spiritual, compassionate, thoughtful, empathetic, opinionated, passionate, intelligent, practical optimist. I err on the side of being slightly introverted (but I vascillate) and in the middle of every type on Myers-Briggs. I can be just as silly and goofy as I can be serious. Love music tremendously and most types; music from every decade. Most hard-core harsh music has gone by the wayside of my youth though. I have an active, smart, precocious and creative daughter who is 12 years old and I would like more children (but that's not a deal-breaker). Her biological father is not in the picture.

My passions include nutrition, alternative & holistic health and helping others. I really enjoy researching and learning and read quite a bit, whether researching online or reading books (mostly on nutrition & health, psychology and spirituality). I love learning how things work. I like to cook and prepare meals healthfully... but that does not equate to low fat, low protein. I love vegetables but I am no vegetarian. I eat butter and beef - YUM - it's just grassfed. Think more along the lines of Weston Price organic whole foods plus Paleo type eating but I just haven't cut out all the carbs/grains.

I have always felt like a country girl at heart stuck in the city. The fast paced chaotic life is not my cup of tea. I'm not a "party" girl and don't want to go out more nights than I am home. Don't get me wrong, I like to go out and have fun and I do like to travel but I'm just more of a "home-body." I prefer a smaller circle of close friends as opposed to tons of acquaintances. I like small get-togethers and BBQs at home. I love a good movie and watch movies from all different genres - not just chick flicks only. I like "guy" movies too and the super-hero ones too. I'm just not into horror or gruesome stuff.

I love the beautiful unique position of living between the mountains and the ocean in gorgeous Oregon. I love nature, trees, lots of green things and also being able to breathe ocean air with a not-so-long drive away. Ultimately, I'd love to live on some land and have a large garden to grow some of my own food and have goats, maybe a cow and some chickens. It's not a deal-breaker if you are not interested in that type of life, it's just a dream of mine. I'd prefer to live on the outskirts or just outside of a major city. (And guess what, part of my dream came true! :) My parents bought some beautiful property on the outskirts of town when they relocated to Oregon from California - all set up for gardening and planning on getting chickens in the spring). Either in work or play, I'm not afraid to get my hands dirty. I have usually been (but not exclusively) a t-shirt and jeans kind of gal but I have always loved summer dresses. And like most women, I love to get really dressed up now and again. But I'm not a daily make-up wearer.

I am not a career driven, overly ambitious type. I have a very family oriented focus. I like to give to and help those in need. I'd love to take ballroom dancing classes. I'd also love to do more artistic and creative things. I don't have a lot of experience but would love to go fishing or target shooting (gun or bow). Maybe even paintball because I've never done it. However, I heard that it can really hurt. I suppose if I wore enough layers to not feel any pain, I might look like the Michelin Man and hardly be able to move.


Please have some form of an active spiritual life and perspective with a desire for learning and growth. My beliefs are not limited to those held by mainstream Christianity by any measure. I don't put God or life in a box. I am not a judgemental, self-righteous, uppity, look-my-nose-down on people type of person. That's not what God is about. It's all about love and relationships. Please have a willingness and desire to help others and the ability to think outside of just yourself.

Please don't be shy. I may have a strong personality and be assertive in many ways but I am very sweet and thoughtful and have a very soft and gentle side. I would prefer a man to take the lead most of the time and have a more dominant and confident personality as opposed to being overly passive. Someone I can lean on and trust so I don't always have to be in charge and hold the reins. Please have at least a little fire and a few edges to your personality; but that doesn't equate to being a jerk or drama promoting.

I'm not here to meet people to just jump into bed with. But I am very affectionate. I'm looking for a best friend, relationship, love and real intimacy first. I'm demisexual. Gotta love all the extra classifications nowadays; or maybe not. LOL

If you are far left-wing, we would not make a good match. I would consider myself on the conservative side of Libertarian.

I am open to wherever God thinks is the best location for me. But I really love the area where I am now.

Thanks for dropping by and reading. I hope you find the perfect match for you. Take care and be blessed! :)

Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Where we go or what we specifically do is not as important. As long as we are enjoying each other's company and laughing, then we will likely have a good time. Sense of humor is required. :) A walk, mini-golf, bowling, roller skating, sitting and getting to know one another? But a meet and greet over coffee or tea is probably best for a first time meeting. I'm open - just bring some good ideas. :)