Ok. I have a daughter with cancer. We are awaiting results if treatments worked. Trying to get back into dating but if anyone wants to meet me ,talk to me, even knowing this, I don't shut my phone off but normally In bed by 9 and up by 5. Sleep is much needed. I know I a n the poster child of who not to date, lol. But I'm honest :)
Trying to update my photos but living in a dark cave ( so it seems) and being a pale redhead....it's iffy at best.... cell phone pics suck...atleast for me :) Camera broke, not because of me, lol, My red hair varies, but I still look the same :) 3 of my pics are recent.. I have never claimed to be photogenic... But I had to put the cell phone ones on here that I don't love so men don't think that I am ready for a night out all the time, :) I am a size 10 with curves.... if that is a deal breaker for you, move on...
I like motorcycles ( just bought my first used motorcycle and have been out practicing everyday ) and humor and country music. I seem to date men that are too busy or don't want a relationship. I work a lot and can get kind of stressed out with it, but want a man who has time and the inclination to spend time together. I have two kids, 15 and 21 They are totally awesome. :)
I love to read fbi thrillers, listen to music and just chill.
When I go out I prefer biker dive bars with live music and down to earth peeps.
I can be the quiet one or the wild one....you never know .
I like most music, country and top 40 are my fav's.
My friends think I am loyal and honest. I try not to BS anyone.
I like taller men, 6 ft and over is nice but have dated shorter., I like big arms and tattoos... but have dated skinny guys with no tattoos......
I just saw this quote from Marilyn Monroe... think this describes me to a tee!!!
" I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes. I'm outta control at times, a little hard to handle, but if you cant handle me at my worst, then you sure don't deserve me at my best"
I love that!!! May turn a few men off, but heck, at least you know how I am, lol.
On trying to be a decent person. we all email others who we find attractive, and lets face it, a lot of pics are cell phone pics, so not great, so If the pic is ok but the email has personality, I may respond,,, I used to try and respond to any emails , parents raised me not to be rude.( well, they tried ateast, lol ) If any man finds me attractive, I am a happy camper.... thank you, If I don't respond....win me over with personality :)...if not, thank you for your interest and if I like you hopefully you think I have a smidgeon of a personality.....if I am tired.....pissed, overworked, well.... lets talk tomorrow : ).... and to be fair to you men..... I am putting this on here wearing no makeup and a robe....NEVER post that pic, :)
On that note... seems all Fl. men love the beach, hunt, fish, work out , want a physically fit woman .....dang it people... :} I work 55 hours a week, drive an hour a day, have 2 kids and bills..... I can be that woman if I wasn't self sufficient......I am just being a smart ass/ realistic about this :) Why I love motorcycles and bands that remind you life has its pleasures but we don't always have to have the same ones to enjoy life.
Welllll, all first dates seem to be, meet for a quick drink and make sure neither person wants to run, so guess we can stick with that.... now the second date..... it needs to be a "real" date :) ya know, boy comes to girls house n picks her up, takes her out... does not tell her she can have one drink and no appetizer and nothing expensive ( yes, I have been on this date, lol )and brings girl home without the cops being called.... ( n yes, I have had to consider doing this as well ) sounds so easy in theory!!!