A little about me:
I love to cook and entertain, anywhere from a multi-course meal to a simple barbeque. Generally I'm a pretty laid back down to earth guy. I'm passionate about smart choices and growing intellectually. I feel like I have achieved a good balance between work, play kids and living. The only thing missing in my life is someone to enjoy it with, someone who can share their life with me too, because I love to learn from those around me. I'm passionate about second chances but I don't do too well with people who have a victim mentality. I enjoy long conversations and laughter, playing in the sun, the water, the snow or just a field. I just enjoy being around people. I'm grateful for being where I am and fully realize that there are thousands of people who are less fortunate than I am. I'm humble and sincere, and I am smart enough to realize that I don't have all of life's mysteries figured out, but it's an enjoyable journey. I don't judge people because everyone is different and no one is perfect, especially not me!
I work in a bank which has provided several moments of comic relief. (I had a hard time keeping a straight face when a customer wondered how she could POSSIBLY be out of money when she still had checks left!!).
I have two kids and no drama with the ex. I'm involved with my kids both in & out of school, actively participating in their enrichment to supplement their education. I try to be the best dad I can!
I'm looking for someone down to earth, confident, self sufficient and drama free. I am NOT looking for a hook up or a FWB. Reality for me is that when I do find the right person, the relationship that stems from it will be based on intellectual compatibility, great communication and mutual respect. I'm not looking for someone who I could be with for a long time; eventually I hope to find the woman that I can't be without. I have to believe that she is out there somewhere. Please feel free to write and ask me anything you would like to know!