Hiya! Welllll...ok, I'm not quite sure you're ready for this tiny tornado. ;) Ha, I can be a feisty fishy who is comfortable in most any situation, I'm pretty self-aware, very loyal and 100% honest (read as: pleeease don't waste my time since life is short!), I'm a mostly strong woman with a high level of energy. I'm abundantly caring and sincere but am also fairly direct (so occasionally a little blunt -OOPS!! But I def *don't* mean to be hurtful.) My personality is usually positive and playfully (devilishly?) bratty...and I hope you are likewise at least sometimes. -Wait, all that stuff except for you too being a woman that is. ;)
Though rarely found, here to chat with a quality someone who may eventually become a longterm bf. :) Simple things make me happy. Heck, life has lots more nice, small moments than it does big ones anyway! I'm sporty and adventurous plus the reliable and emotionally supportive type, who enjoys spur of the moment stuff *and* setting some plans in advance so there's also something fun to look forward to. While I'm fairly independent, I unquestionably want to have and appreciate having a man around. I have a vulnerable side so having a bf who values that and offers up some strong shoulders would be great! You should be someone who I can count on. (Otherwise, why even be with me?) ...Who I match best with: predominantly clean cut, athletically trim, tall, slightly younger men (they match my activity/energy level better), who tend to blur the lines between white and blue collar interests and mindset (though leaning more to white than blue.) Oh!, and I very much hope you're an animal lover because if you don't see the HUGE value in having a pet, we're from vastly different worlds that prob wouldn't mesh well. (I know some great pet sitters so traveling shouldn't be an excuse to not have a fur buddy.) Also important is for you to have intelligence with a strong streak of integrity. Men who interest me often have a sarcastic wit and can appreciate multiple styles of music. -Basically I like a well rounded guy, you know, ones with actual depth. ...BIG bonus if you're a cuddler and a hand holder! :)
I certainly won't pretend that I'm perfect. Mmh, ok I admit to running about 10-15 minutes behind schedule a little too frequently. Yeah I know, I knoooww. :P And sure, I might once in awhile become impatient due to a current frustration. *sigh* ...Oh! Plus there's also that really cute thing where I'm usually right, which is kind of hard on those who mistakenly think they are, LOL ;) Aw heeyyy, I'm only TEASING, sheesh! Eh, well anyway, I'm a tell it like it is type and I'm NOT a high maintenance girl with most things -phew!!! ;) I don't have an adventurous palate though, so for all you fancy menu men out there, just eat at those places when out with your pals or business clients. But I *do* like to actually eat! :) ...Something a potential romantic man in my life needs to do is to cause an instant feeling of energized interest. Without my feeling mentally and physically attracted right away, I already know we WON'T be sharing sheets later...
Can't help it very much that I'll always appreciate physical beauty in my harder to find, quality man. Over time I've paid attention to what DOES ignite things for me and yep, I'm human. ;) I particularly like men who leave their bangs longer as it almost always makes him hotter. For whatever reason, a man's hair is a fairly strong element of his sexiness to me, and I do like 'em sexy RAWR! ~~I am unapologetically selective~~ However, looks are certainly not *everything* because no matter how beautiful you are in appearance, if you're unreliable, dishonest/secretive or an insensitive jerk, then you absolutely won't be for me. (Even though plenty of other ladies do, I'm strong enough to not settle for that bs treatment from any person. It's simply not worth it to me.) ...Respect is VERY important!
Sooo...what are YOU like that makes you unique or a better choice, and what do you seek in a woman that makes her move to the top of your list? C'mon, spill it...I wanna know. :)
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
First we'd have to meet up and then maybe afterwards we could take the "date" step if we're on the same page -and hopefully we will be!
(I'll only meet men who I feel could be a well matched friend, so then if mutual chemistry also exists between us, it's a great bonus.)
Something fun with an activity in it is cool. I'm open for suggestions/possibilities since I'm comfortable in most situations.