I'm Ja'Vari Latin, but my friends call me Jay Beaux! I'm a really down to earth, easy to please kind of person. I am a really great guy. I try to always be kind and respectable, because that's what I would expect from everyone else.. I was raised in the south, I'm a die hard gentleman, and walking proof that chivalry isn't quite dead yet.. I'm very exciting. I'm a huge music fan; It's sort of what I want to do in life, but its a dream I'v set aside recently. I'm really intelligent. I went to college for Art (drawing focus and sculpture). I play guitar (along with bass, piano, drums) with some of my best friends in a couple projects, but not anymore since I moved here. (Metairie). I'd really love to work with children and music. I'm just a 6'4 kid myself sometimes so I tend to fit right in lol. I'm from Louisiana but I've lived all over.
Looking for new and interesting people.
Qualities I request in a love interest:
A Smart, Humble woman, who isn't self centered. An Equal... Someone who loves herself. (you cant love another, romantically, without that). A woman that gets that nothing in life is permanent, but true love, and experiences. Someone who doesn't judge a person by what they assume that person should be, and does not make rash assumptions at all. Someone I feel honored to protect and provide for, and proud to be with. A confident woman that isn't easily mislead. Someone I can always support with no question about it. A woman that understands mistakes, but doesn't tolerate abuse. Someone that sees the truth in people. A woman that makes character decisions about another, based upon what a person does and how a person treats their peers, but not based on only what a person says. Someone who's personal definition includes the word Empathy.. Someone around my age. Someone that isn't shallow. (I'm a strong Man, and I desire depth). Someone that will make me daydream about her, and write songs about her. Some one who understands that I have a past, and that I long to accept hers. Someone who has grown. Who can take a compliment! lol. Someone who can handle the fact that just maybe, I don't need "fixing", and has the confidence to accept that. Someone that understands that we do need space!..............,but not distance.. A Thinker. A real, Free thinker. A role model, that can back it up.. A woman that can stand up for herself and for whats right, but will let me stand up for her at times, because she knows I'm always there for her. A Truthful woman, but not a belittling person. Not a Stepford wife status seeker..(looks fade,..and fast) True class.. A woman that does not confuse ambition, drive, and success, with dead possessions and other peoples opinions. Her real success is her knowledge, and her compassion. Oh, If I could find that...
What I Love and Who I Am...
Making people smile,
Letting someone know the good things about themselves,
I am a writer,
I Love myself,
I LOVE Laughing!!!
I'm easy to get along with. I haven't met anyone that I can't get along with, that has actually given me a chance to get to know them..
I never Judge
I'm very unique,
I have a great sense of humor,
I truly can be just friends with women. Roll your eyes if you want.. I do not desire to, nor do I feel that it's attractive to try to sleep with every woman you meet.
I hate to see ANYONE get picked on,
I Love Animals, though It took a while for cats to grow on me, They did eventually haha,
I'm not afraid of emotions,
I'm not afraid of anything. Some things just take getting used to.
Being outdoors is wonderful,
I am a MAN, I don't tolerate people who don't respect others,
I also don't hide the fact that I cry easily when emotions are there, a good book, movie, Song, or giving a well deserved gift yanks my chain every time lol.
I'm a minimalist, I don't take more than I need.
I love to give,
I love to help people less fortunate than me,
I love to help people more fortunate than me,
I can party with the best of them.. Haven't met too many who can safely and reasonably out party me. hahah!
I'm an only child but I'm so selfless... It's to the point to where I can sometimes be taken advantage of. Not because I'm naive, but because I am truly just a good guy.. Unless you f*ck up bad..
Music, Happiness, and Love are the most important things to me.
Treat everyone how you would like to be treated and the world would have no choice but to be Heaven..