Me: loyal, responsible, a good listener, intellectual, fun, smart, sophisticated, kind, confindent, independent, not afraid to get my hands dirty but classy at the same time.
Who I'm looking for: male, as tall as me, attractive, wise, caring, generous, confident, intellectual, stable, a believer, adventurous (not adrenaline junky), faithful, and capable of dressing up or down for the occassion.
So I have a question, what exactly does it take for a good girl/woman to get a good guy/man to message her first? I'm old fashioned in some ways. I shouldn't be making the first move. If I favorite you or say I want to meet you then I'm interested. Also, I hate talking on the phone to anyone. It doesn't matter if you are my family or best friend, I have never liked talking on the phone. At least with email and text I can have time to come up with something to say to someone I've never met. I will talk on the phone after meeting you but before is just plain awkward. Where have all the good men gone???
On a first date, I would meet someone in a public place for a drink. If the conversation and chemistry flow, then we might go on to dinner, a movie, or hang out and just visit. Depends on the person, their honesty, and the feeling I get when I meet them in person.