lotsandlotsofladybugs: Keep Moving Forward
Non-Smoker with Average body type
Ft smith, Oklahoma
43 year old Female, 5' 6" (168cm), Christian - other
Caucasian, Aquarius
lotsandlotsofladybugs is looking for a relationship.
Masters Degree
Computer Programmer

I am Seeking a Man For Dating
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry View her chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Does not want children
Marital Status Divorced Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Brown Eye Color Blue
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? Yes
Longest Relationship Over 10 years How ambitious are you? Ambitious
Pets Dog  

About Me
Me: loyal, responsible, a good listener, intellectual, fun, smart, sophisticated, kind, confindent, independent, not afraid to get my hands dirty but classy at the same time.

Who I'm looking for: male, as tall as me, attractive, wise, caring, generous, confident, intellectual, stable, a believer, adventurous (not adrenaline junky), faithful, and capable of dressing up or down for the occassion.

So I have a question, what exactly does it take for a good girl/woman to get a good guy/man to message her first? I'm old fashioned in some ways. I shouldn't be making the first move. If I favorite you or say I want to meet you then I'm interested. Also, I hate talking on the phone to anyone. It doesn't matter if you are my family or best friend, I have never liked talking on the phone. At least with email and text I can have time to come up with something to say to someone I've never met. I will talk on the phone after meeting you but before is just plain awkward. Where have all the good men gone???

First Date
On a first date, I would meet someone in a public place for a drink. If the conversation and chemistry flow, then we might go on to dinner, a movie, or hang out and just visit. Depends on the person, their honesty, and the feeling I get when I meet them in person.

Mail Settings
To send a message to lotsandlotsofladybugs you MUST meet the following criteria:
Age between 32 and 55.
Must not have messaged users looking for intimate encounters or sex.
Must not do drugs
Must not be married