Me: loyal, responsible, a good listener, intellectual, fun, smart, sophisticated, kind, confindent, independent, not afraid to get my hands dirty but classy at the same time.
Who I'm looking for: male, as tall as me, attractive, wise, caring, generous, confident, intellectual, stable, a believer, adventurous (not adrenaline junky), faithful, and capable of dressing up or down for the occassion.
So I have a question, what exactly does it take for a good girl/woman to get a good guy/man to message her first? I'm old fashioned in some ways. I shouldn't be making the first move. If I favorite you or say I want to meet you then I'm interested. Also, I hate talking on the phone to anyone. It doesn't matter if you are my family or best friend, I have never liked talking on the phone. At least with email and text I can have time to come up with something to say to someone I've never met. I will talk on the phone after meeting you but before is just plain awkward. Where have all the good men gone???
On a first date, I would meet someone in a public place for a drink. If the conversation and chemistry flow, then we might go on to dinner, a movie, or hang out and just visit. Depends on the person, their honesty, and the feeling I get when I meet them in person.
To send a message to lotsandlotsofladybugs you MUST meet the following criteria:
Age between 32 and 55.
Must not have messaged users looking for intimate encounters or sex.
Must not be looking for Other Relationship
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter
Must not be looking for Activity Partner
Must not do drugs
Must not be married