I can find the humor is almost any situation. All of my friends know me as the funny guy who can enliven any hangout session. I appreciate and try to surround myself with people who are smart enough to realize that they don’t know everything, but want to learn as much as they can. Other than the standard 'honesty, honesty, honesty', I would rate intelligence and a fantastic sense of humor as my top-most traits when dating someone.
When I go out with friends, I’m equally happy with a low-key activity like shooting pool, as I am picking up the mic and singing on karaoke night. If you like country songs by Josh Turner, Randy Travis, or Brad Paisley, those are my specialty. I listen to just about any music though, and I’ll sing along in the car. If you’d rather stay in for the evening, that’s fine by me too. I’d like to curl up on the couch with someone and watch a movie. On a nice weekend, I enjoy outdoor activities such as fishing, camping, and off-roading.
For a first date, I think that you should be able to talk and get to know each other. I think bowling, pool, or even mini golf would be good.