So as time marches forward I find it necessary to review things and be completely clear of my hopes and expectations here. First of all I changed my status in regards to what i'm looking for. I want to date that step seems to be what I remember is the first logical step you are supposed to take to build a relationship. Secondly I do want a relationship eventually but I don't need or want that hanging over either of our heads in the beginning as we get to know one another better. Thirdly and this one I am admit about and I feel like I must beg a little, "PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE if you are the type of guy that does the whole disappearing trick after the second date with out having the common decency of telling the girl what red flag, foe paw, behavior issues transpired on said dates move on. If for what ever reason I am not feeling someone after a date or two or even if a red flag was raised I have always felt it was best to let them know so they aren't left hanging in the out field scratching their heads asking themselves what in the bleep was it this time? It's situations like these that seriously have me questioning the dating world but deep down I am a hopeless romantic and know that I have a lot to offer that special someone who steps into my life. Just as I hope they have a lot to offer me in return. Please don't let anything I may write on here scare you off if you have questions just ask. Also summer is almost upon us and that means my schedule gets a little less hectic I look forward to getting out side and enjoying every minute of it when it finally decides to grace us with it's presence here in Michigan. :-)
So this is supposed to give you a glimpse of who I am. Not really fair if you ask me. There are usually so many different dimensions to a person that I have to ask, how can one possibly figure someone out by their dating profile? That being said here goes nothing... I am a 37 year old single mother. That is my first and for most job position. I have a great teenager and we have a really great relationship. No family drama here.
I have had various jobs through out my life but never had one that seemed like it was for the long hall. So when I was hit with a layoff in 2010 I took that time to focus on my self and my kid. It was one of the best summers I ever had. It gave me time to figure out my next steps. So that lead to a new job field and school. Which leads to a very crazy and chaotic schedule at my house. Working full time and going to school full time five days a week will do that to a person. Good news Spring is almost here and Summer is not that far behind. So for me that means one more semester of classes before summer break, a possible new job, lacrosse with the kid, and hiking and camping as soon as it warms up. Oh yeah and only t-minus 15 days till Tiger Opening Day! One of my goals this summer is to see a couple of games any one interested in joining let me know. :-)
My family and friends mean the world to me and I would like to meet someone who can appreciate this and has those same values. My friends are my family and I can often be found hanging out with them most weekends. I have to say that the intent options that POF provides kinds suck...one makes you sound like your looking for a fling and the other ones make you seem like a stalker kinda. My intent is to get to know you and have you get to know me...find out if we click and take it one day at a time. I would love to find my other half but am realistic enough to know it takes work.
I am caring, thoughtful, enigmatic, funny, upbeat, spunky, outgoing, fun loving, adventurous, reliable, trustworthy,(starting to feel like im describing a pet), affectionate, passionate and a wicked sense of humor( can you tell?)! Interested email me to find out the rest.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
You used to be able to find me at a club almost every night of the week. Don't get me wrong I still love to dance just not into the bar scene. As I've gotten older quieter dates seem to be more to my appeal. Dinner, movies, bowling, karaoke, walking thru downtown's, coffee shops, star gazing. You name it and I more then likely will try it, once if i don't like it and twice if I do!