Retired Military Officer turned businessman; who believe in living and working hard in a stress free environment. I'm looking to meet a lady who is Collage Degreed, highly intelligent and not basing her educational foundation off researching the internet and other people who has taken the time to go to school. Old fashion in the sense, I love the idea of being in love and making my lady feel like she doesn't know if she wants to pee or just go crazy (smile). I want to put a look on her face like the joker each morning and send her to work whistle and skipping. I’m removing my motto "One Stop Shopping", because it has drawn some thirsty older sister, lacking a 401K and retirement plan in their golden years. I plan to spend more time at my homes in Jacksonville but maintain my main home in the Metro Detroit Area (close to Canada). On a very serious note some people use the internet to hide some deep emotional issues which makes it impossible for them to find true love. You can’t hide crazy for a minute, but it will find its way to the surface like oil in water. Intimacy requires us to be no less than ourselves-fully, openly, with no pretense. I’m willing to share with you, who I am, without a mask, and in return you should do the same. We both should be willing to accept each other as we are friends forever. I feel some woman open themselves to brothers unworthy of their love, Some women have encounter abusive and enabled men, but you own it to yourself to get counseling prior to getting back into the dating game. Many time brothers like myself are so into career and building for the future, we miss out on true love. About the time the "Good" brother find the deserving sister; she is so frustrated and disappointed in men, she begins to question if she really needs one. I know we brothers can be a hand full sometimes, and we can even get stupid and give into our male genitalia (i.e. a basketball player we all know and love). But occasionally, you run into a brother like myself who is focused on doing the right thing and growing older in peace and tranquility. I've come to understand over the years that doing the right thing is so much better to deal with the complex world we live in.
I have some additional thoughts: I'm an old fashion type of guy who loves the idea of romancing a woman in such a way she reflex's back in her mind throughout the day of how good the before was and what possible could be next. When I walk into the room her heart beats fastest and she feels like she is moving backwards in a swing. It all about you! Please, No Ladies with psychological issues, need counseling, on medications or on medications but not taking them; and ladies with crazy ex-husbands/men friends or experiencing pattern of signs and symptoms, such as fear and a perceived inability to escape, appearing in women who are physically and mentally abused over an extended period by a husband or other dominant individual. battered woman syndrome or Posttraumatic stress disorder (PTSD), need not apply.