** First off - If you're a player/gamer/scammer or not from CA/USA, please skip me by.
*** Full Disclosure: I have updated my profile a bazillion of times on my age, but to no avail...:( I just turned 50 in July and I'm very comfortable in my own skin/age and have embraced all my flaws and foibles...:) I also am very cautious on this site, so please bear with me.
-- Please see the latest pics: 11/30/13, 10/18/13, 9/12/13, 8/7/13 with a band member, 7/29/13 n other current ones. Please be REAL and have a current profile with more than one pic..:)
- We come to Love not by finding a Perfect Person, But by learning to see an Imperfect Person perfectly..:)..
-I'm realistic; hence, I can't describe my Match by checking on a check list.....It's the intangible compatibility/chemistry that we'll know once we communicate and meet in person.
-- Just looking for a long-term match.... if it happens, great.. but no rush, no expectations.. just trying to keep my profile honest, simple with no expectations...:)... btw, i have no hidden agenda, tattoos, just a simple girl.
** I'm more attracted to brain/heart than brawn...:)
** - I'm a college-educated/sincere person and seek same.
*** I prefer to date only divorced man because i once dated a separated man and it was very complicated for everybody. Sorry about that.
-- I've been divorced for a long time and am ready now to develop/nourish/establish a relationship if the right match is found.:)
*** I hope to find a Match who inspires my mind, excites my passion and occupies my heart.
** I like a Good Man and not a Bad Boy 'cuz i'm more of a girl next door. Sorry, i'm neither a Harley or Country girl. More like a suburb/city/beach bum kinda girl..:)
*** I''m on here because my friends insisted on me trying this site.
-- Even though we're on a dating website, i hope that when we meet, it'd be just like 2 persons just happened to run into each other spontaneously and getting to know each other slowly like the old, natural way...:)
*** If u believe in a phone screen first before meeting; then please pass me by because i still have faith that this dating process is not a hiring process. Love is something we search for but will happen unexpectedly and naturally..:)
*** I appreciate honesty and transparency in a relationship..:)
*** We are all on our own journeys, and we are mostly in different places on these journeys of ours. Some of our paths cross, some don't, some bump, some collide, while others move in unison. Looking for a match with similar path to merge with and choose love, give love, and be loved:)
*** I'm at a good point in my life where my kids are all grown up n' in college and i can be free to relocate to any warmer beachy location if I meet the right match. But of course, this would take time and has to start as friends first.
- I'm not a serial dater or player and don't want to be One....:) I just want to date one person at a time and hopefully find that ONE person that i've been searching for....:)
- I'm seeking a Quality Man n' not Quantity...:)
- I'm a One-Man Woman and hope my match feel the same way....:) I respect and treasure any chance meeting that i have with people on a date.....:)... Still hoping for my 'Last First Date' and get off of this site....:)
-- It's funny i'm 'on' this site hoping to get 'off' this site...(after i meet my match of course..:))...:)
- I am an East Coast (CT) transplant, but i'm a CA beach gurl and love the beach, sand, and fish tacos...:)
- I don't want a perfect person, I just want someone to be silly with, someone who treats me well and who loves being with me more than anything. I like a man with a kind eye/face and especially a kind heart.
- I'd rather be Real than Perfect.
- My friends and family would describe me as normal with an Indie twist, spunky, sincere, kind, goofy, unpretentious, caring, empathetic, passionate, affectionate, free-spirited, and have a big heart. I like to laugh a lot, life is short..:)
-- I'm very spontaneous; I like to go to funky, retro and artsy cities/beaches to visit/ppl watch/sample local food beverages.
- I've been told I have a very youthful, and positive disposition and pretty much can talk to anyone including dead people...j/k...... LOL...:)
- My interests varied from eating healthy, keeping a fit/balanced life, and making happiness a priority in life. A Healthy life is a Happy Life and vice versa.
- Oh, and btw, I ride pink pig, feed bocce balls to cows, and hunt unicorns (see pics!) during my spare time...j/k......LOL...:)
- I also have been told i looked much younger than my age.. but then that's coming from my 'family n' friends' after i paid them off well....LOL...:)
- I used to be in Engineering/Consultant Mgmt, but i'm no longer in the Tech Field. :).. Secretly, I'm still a 'closet geek/dork' and still love all the gadgets...LOL. BTW, i love TED Talks for those geeky- minded like me...:)
- Intelligence is very attractive to me and so are humor and romance....:). Hoping to find someone who'll be a Challenge and a Friend to my mind...:)
- I'd do well with a humble, laid-back, caring man and probably will not fare too well with a cynical, sarcastic man....:)...
- I like to be active to keep in shape (it's a necessity at this age...LOL); but also enjoyed my downtime..:)... I'm definitely NOT a gym rat, but it'd be nice to be able to find a match to go to the gym with me and maybe i'll show up more....LOL. Or do more hiking with my match....:)
- It has been quite a while since my last relationship and it can get quite lonely at times; but, i'm willing to wait for the right person. I'm ready to meet the right match to have that quality human connection again at all levels: physically, emotionally, spiritually, and intellectually...:). I also missed the hand-holding, and cuddling.
- I'm hoping to meet someone to date and hopefully it may lead to a LTR if it's a right match. I'm not looking for casual dating and/or hookups. Hence, i prefer to date only those looking for a possible LTR, serious relationship or more.
- I'm not looking for someone to Complete me; just looking for someone to share travel adventures and life's interests with..:)
-- I'm imperfect and do embrace/accept all my flaws and foibles. I'm not into the club scenes.
- I was married for 23 yrs, divorced for 8 yrs. I have 2 great kids (23 , 21). I'm family-oriented and very proud that my oldest is going for her Master Degree while the younger one is a Jr. at UC Davis.
Thanks for reading my profile and best wishes with your search as well..:)