I have been single now for a longtime, not by lack of opportunity but because somehow, someway i actually grew up. I know that sounds silly coming from a 40 something guy to say, but its true. Like all of us especially if you have been married and have kids etc, we had to survive and to move on. I realized a long time ago that how can i truly be in a REAL relationship if I'm not able to be on my own and be able emotionally, mentally and financially to fall in love. I think that its when u stop looking it finds u. But me being a gambling man, i'll hedge my bets and look and pretend i'm not and see what happens.
As far as me, please DONT interview me, save that for your pencil head boring guy, Im all about spontaneous and unplanned magic.
I will say I'm worth every minute of meeting me and talking face to face, not in a**** way but in a self confident and wise way