True_Essence98: A couple of forevers... I'm looking for my FAMILY.
Non-Smoker with A Few Extra Pounds body type
Detroit, Michigan
35 year old Male, 5' 8" (173cm), Christian - other
Black, Capricorn
True_Essence98 wants to find someone to marry.
Graduate Degree
Music Snob
You wouldn't believe me , so find out :)

I was so sick but still performed for thousands this day

I am Seeking a Woman For Long Term
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry View his chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Want children
Marital Status Divorced Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Black Eye Color Brown
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? Yes
Longest Relationship Over 10 years How ambitious are you? Very Ambitious
Pets No Pets Second Language Chinese

About Me
If you pass me by because of what I'm not , you'll miss out on all that I am. I understand that not everyone will understand the type of person that I am. I'm different. I'm salt. The kind of guy that you dream of , but the kind of guy you run from because of the fear of falling too deep. But here's the question , why not fall in love ? What's wrong with being in love ? Why are we as a society in these days afraid of commitment , building lives together and creating a legacy ?

Side note , I work out at La Fitness on Morross connected to St John's Hosiptal in Detroit Michigan. It would be great to have a work out partner ;)

I know that if im going to find me an angel in this lifetime , I must prepare a heaven on earth for her . Therefore I don't need a Valentine's Day to tell you how much I love you. I don't need an anniversary to tell you how much I care. I don't need a holiday to tell you how I feel , all I need is today. The love that I have to give will embrace you and hug you so tight that your broken pieces will stick back together again.

Who will give me today ? All I need is today.

There have been many messages I've received from women saying how amazing I am , how they enjoyed my profile and that it gives them hope that real gentlemen still exist. I've had people say that I am the kind of man they wish they had in their lives . They say so many things about how they are amazed that I am single , then they " wish me good luck in what I'm seeking ". I don't exactly know how to take that. Is it that these women are already taken and just here to flirt and came across their " dream guy " and just wanted to encourage him? Maybe it's women that know they are not gonna do anything but hurt or use me and so they just say I'm amazing and wish me good luck because they don't want to scar me. I thought this was a singles site for getting to know someone. Don't just call me amazing , tell me how amazing you are and why you feel I should get to know you. I don't just want to exchange how do you do's. I'd rather be exchanging I Do's .

I am not a cereal dater. I feel that if I take you out , then it must be memorable. Dinner and a movie just won't do. It has to be specially planned and thought out. I'm not a normal person by any means. The artist in me constantly dreams creative things in which to do to make another smile. If I like you enough to show you my world and how I think , then you have a special place in my world. In order to get to that place , I have to get to know you so get to know me. I need someone amazing in my life.

If you're amazing , then show me amazing. Let's stop putting up so many walls around who we are. Don't be afraid to be yourself. I am different. I'm weird and I love it. Embrace who you really are and be that person. The world needs your originality.

Ok , now that I have your attention :) I am originally from Detroit but the past 5 years I have been living around Asia. Well I am now moving back home to the states and will be starting a new life. In this new stage of my life , it's gonna be scary , but I am always up for a change for the better and being back home is gonna be great for me.

Since being back home I have been hitting the gym 3 times a week. Fitness is important and I'm enjoying getting my mind and body together. I don't have that 6 pack yet but I'm working on so until then EMBRACE THIS BOSS BELLY lol.

I would like to meet someone that is happy :) I am a happy person , a kind gentleman and I enjoy smiling and laughter. I enjoy making other people smile. I talk to strangers. I take walks in neighborhoods unfamiliar to me. I help people , I hold doors open for strangers. I spread love so I would expect you to do the same or at least learn from me. I have no problem showing you how to spread love.

I am a singer , writer , pianist , harpist , producer , drummer , double reed specialist ( bassoon oboe ) saxaphonist , actor ( with movies state side and international as of July 2015 :) ) oh and I always have a pair of tap shoes in my car lol. Yes I am a weird one and I embrace it.

For those that read this far, since I was in high school , I have had this recurring dream about this mysterious woman. I don't know if it's because I'm an artist , because I'm an emotional cancer sign that happens to be a hopeless romantic or if I'm just weird. The more I have the dream , the more details I'm able to capture. It's an amazing dream and to the right person , I would love to cuddle as I tell you of my dream. So there's an incentive lol.

I do not discriminate from age nor race. I am an open book. By the way , I have a lot of performances around the states and many in Michigan so if you would like to see any , feel free to ask and I'll get you my info. Thanks and happy fishing.

First Date
Some where in public view with lots of people just in case you turn out to be crazy I can run and scream for the police lol.

But seriously. All me to make plans. I'll make it special and memorable if you make it as far as to go on a date with me. I'm a creative hopeless romantic. I feel that as a man , the first date should be something that shows a woman just how much you getting to know her and impressing her by your thoughtfulness , creativity , and broad spectrum of ideas which will create either a very happy one , or a very bad one lol . Either way , there will be an awesome memory.

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