Age: 30
Long term
the_essence98: I Can Teach You How To Love Me!!!!!!!!!!!!
Non-smoker with A Few Extra Pounds
Detroit, Michigan
33 year old Man, 5' 9" (175cm), Christian - other
Black Capricorn with Black hair
the_essence98 is looking for a relationship.
Bachelors degree
Music Snob

I am Seeking a Woman For Long term
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry View his chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Yes
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Pets No Pets Eye Color Brown
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? Yes
Longest Relationship Over 10 years How ambitious are you? Very Ambitious
Second Language Chinese  

ProducingFishingTraveling i travel often and have seen so much of the world

About Me

Pass me by for what I'm not, and you'll miss out on what I am.I am searching for the reason to love again. Im 33 years old and a Cancer. Yup a real life emo lol.

I am currently in China but coming back to the states at the end of April.

I am a hopeless romantic family man, I love the thought of walking in the rain holding hands. I love the thought of packing up the car and driving to Disney land, seeing the excitement of my children in their eyes and the headache my wife has because of all the screaming coming from the back seat lol.

I love fishing, camping, swimming,basketball,football,poker,concerts,romantic movies. I love singing acting and playing music.

I am a man of many talents . I decided to stop my neurology dream to pursue a different dream in music and it is paying off quite well. I am currently in Beijing working on my CD entitled Bringing Back The Gentleman. I am a singer, actor,writer, pianist,harpist, saxophonist (and I play a lot of other instruments as well. Also I own a talent agency and I book bands and different acts around Asia from the states to different clubs and events. Currently I am working as an actor on a film here in China. I am playing the role of a famous heroic cartoon character. It is fun bringing this character to life. The name of the movie is Heroes of Kingdoms. This will be my second acting roll in a major movie. I had a small role on an American movie called Whats Love Got To D With It( the Tina Turner story) when I was 11 years old. I also did a lot of stage plays and musicals growing up. I had a Mcdonalds commercial and about 4 others as well growing up. I have lived a pretty awesome life so far.

Ok I get questions about what kind of music and shows I like. I am a musician and writer so I love all kinds of music. If you picked up my ipod you would be highly confused trying to figure out my race and age. Seriously I listen to everything like, Lil Wayne, Aerosmith, Imogen Heap(big ups if you know them) Queen, Bach, Gershwin, Jay-Z Brandi , Kirk Franklin , Fred Hammond, funny thing is I have written and performed with a lot of artist both local and famous. I even sang for Kenny Rogers for 3 years every Christmas holiday for the Kenny Rogers Christmas Special. I like country hip hop gospel classical and ROCK......If you dont like Judd Aptow films then you have not lived lol come on Anchor Man, 40 year old virgin, super bad, I love to laugh. FAMILY GUY IS MY FAVORITE SHOW.

I first went to China to work on the film score for karate kid and was persuaded to stay and work with developing asian artist which evolved to me producing , writing and consulting for clubs and famous asian acts from China and the Philippines.. I love my job and I love my life.

If you have a police record and dont plan on changing your bad habits and getting your life together then I am not for you. If you do not have any dreams of your own, then I am not for you. If you hate children I am not for you( I love kids, I was a teacher for 3 years also.). If you like to fight and argue, I am not for you. I like to smile and have fun, life is too short for small arguments that spiral into big ones. Lets just be happy. It is possible to be happy . I am looking to live in love and understanding. It is possible. I have seen it done. My parents are prime examples of what real love can do. Still together after all these years. I want what my parents have.

Though I am clean cut does not mean I do not know how to have fun and let loose. I am a musician remember, oh and a comedian. I love making people laugh and cry at the same time. Life is supposed to be fun and exciting. I try to live each day meeting someone new, I smile at strangers, i wave at people I don;t know, I hold doors open for people. This is just who I am. I refuse to change my kindness.

By the way if you read this much, why not just say hello? It does not matter if you think I would make a good match, I am also searching for friends. There is so much more to me than what I have written so feel free to ask. I am a story within a story within another story lol guess I am veiled in allegory.

First Date
Some where in public view with lots of people jut in case you turn out to be crazy I can run and scream for the police lol.

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