Updated March 27th, 2015.
I have not been on here in about a year, so it is time to get back out there.
I have lived in Pittsburgh a few years and the struggle to find a full-time job was starting to get to me. But just recently, I got hired by a bank and I have to say it feels like the weight of the world is off my shoulders. I don’t care how great of a person you are, no one wants to be with someone that struggles financially. I don’t mean to say that everyone thinks that way, but it is really hard to think you can be in a committed relationship when you are struggling.
So, it is a new year, and a new outlook.
Pittsburgh has grown on me a lot lately. Moving from NYC was a big shift for me as the two cities are so much different. But, as I said, I am enjoying the city (minus all the Steelers stuff that is everywhere…sorry girls). Don't hate me. :) Crazily, I have found the best burger I have ever had, and one of the best cupcakes here. I never would have thought that, but it is true.
First thing you need to know, and PLEASE READ THIS. I am on the bus lines. It will change at some point, but this is how it is for now. I did live in NYC for 9 years and do not have a license right now. I will be getting a car at some point, but don't have one yet.
I am passionate about a few things.
#1. I am a HUGE geek. This ranges from movies, to video games. From board games to tabletop rpg’s. This doesn’t mean I don’t like other things, but these are things that are important. If you know what most of those things are, we may want to talk. A few more thoughts on this. Reading is a huge part of who I am. It is my biggest passion and I am never without at least one book on me.
Also, I am a huge tabletop rpg’er. It is something I do in my spare time and am even making my own game and do a bi-weekly hangout online discussing games.
#2. I am also a sports nut. Sadly, I am not a Steeler as my Cowboys own that part of my heart. I have become a Pirate fan, although not as much as the Yankees. Two Chicago teams, the Blackhawks and the Bulls round out my sports love. Also, Oklahoma Sooners. That is where I am from. Boomer! Sooner!
I am into other things, running, music, theater, blah blah blah. We should keep some mystery, right?
I moved here for a new start and I don’t admit to being perfect and lord knows I am not where I want to be as of yet. But I do want to meet someone that can be there with me as everything in my life continues to get better. I am not looking to be anyone’s project, but want someone that wants to explore the next part of my life with me.
Saying that I am not looking for someone that perfect since it is crazy to think anyone is that. I do want someone that loves some of the same things as me. Also, NO SMOKERS. No thank you. Maybe if you are quitting, but still…maybe. Not sure about kids, only cuz I am at a point in my life where I want to enjoy someone and just not sure.
So, if this sounds appealing to you, please send me a message with a bit about you.
Hard to say. I am into so many different things, that it could go a lot of ways. But if I find someone that is into the same stuff as me? It would probably be us meeting for a drink/hot chocolate and then see what happens from there. After we did that for a bit, maybe a movie and then some dessert.