Updated August 2, 2015.
First things first. Yes, I am trying to find someone to spend the rest of my life with. But I am also looking for friends in the Pittsburgh area. So, keep that in mind as well :)
I have not been on here in about a year, so it is time to get back out there.
I have lived in Pittsburgh a few years and recently I got hired by a bank and I have to say it feels like the weight of the world is off my shoulders. Work has been inconsistent since I moved here from NYC, and it is just a great thing.
Also, I don't know if I want children. I am 44 and kind of set in my ways, and want to spend my life with someone amazing and not sure if kids fit in that. Could that change? Maybe, but right now that is how I feel.
Pittsburgh has grown on me a lot lately. Moving from NYC was a big shift for me as the two cities are so different. But, as I said, I am enjoying the city (minus all the Steelers stuff that is everywhere…sorry girls). Don't hate me. :) Crazily, I have found the best burger I have ever had, and one of the best cupcakes here. I never would have thought that, but it is true.
First thing you need to know, and PLEASE READ THIS. I am on the bus lines. It will change at some point, but this is how it is for now. I did live in NYC for 9 years and do not have a license right now. I will be getting a car at some point, but don't have one yet.
I am passionate about a few things.
#1. I am a HUGE geek. This ranges from movies, to video games. From board games to tabletop rpg’s. This doesn’t mean I don’t like other things, but these are things that are important. If you know what most of those things are, we may want to talk. A few more thoughts on this. Reading is a huge part of who I am. It is my biggest passion and I am never without at least one book on me.
Also, I am a huge tabletop rpg’er. It is something I do in my spare time and am even making my own game and do a bi-weekly hangout online discussing games.
#2. I am also a sports nut. Sadly, I am not a Steeler as my Cowboys own that part of my heart. I have become a Pirate fan, although not as much as the Yankees. Two Chicago teams, the Blackhawks and the Bulls round out my sports love. Also, Oklahoma Sooners. That is where I am from.
I am into other things, running, music, theater, blah blah blah. We should keep some mystery, right?
I moved here for a new start and I don’t admit to being perfect and lord knows I am not where I want to be as of yet. But I do want to meet someone that can be there with me as everything in my life continues to get better. I am not looking to be anyone’s project, but want someone that wants to explore the next part of my life with me.
Saying that I am not looking for someone that perfect since it is crazy to think anyone is that. I do want someone that loves some of the same things as me. Also, NO SMOKERS. No thank you. Maybe if you are quitting, but still…maybe. Not sure about kids, only cuz I am at a point in my life where I want to enjoy someone and just not sure.
Also, it would be awesome (but not mandatory) for you to be as excited about the new star wars movie as I am. :)
So, if this sounds appealing to you, please send me a message with a bit about you. If nothing else making new friends is always cool.
Chat me if you are interested.
Hard to say. I am into so many different things, that it could go a lot of ways. But if I find someone that is into the same stuff as me? It would probably be us meeting for a drink/hot chocolate and then see what happens from there. After we did that for a bit, maybe a movie and then some dessert.