"Meeting you was fate. Becoming your friend was a choice. But falling in love with you, I had no control over."
That's the way I envision getting to know the right woman for me (no shame in being a romantic). Instant passion, when isn't that great, but falling in love with her as a best friend, that's gotta be the greater feeling.
But that's looking ahead.
In the meantime, we live our lives as good as always, meeting people, dating, dealing with the odds, and looking forward to that one incredible time when fate works its magic and we just know we've found the one.
None of that, of course, starts without meeting. A meet for a drink, great conversation.. Friends before anything. Fun, great times to follow. Rushing into something that [maybe] is already meant to be great can't be the best approach, so you won't get any hastiness from me. I have a great life. Just wanting to share it with that right woman.
Write me. Who knows, it could be 'fate' whispering its subtle nudge to help us along.
- I'm John