I think I will have better luck meeting someone in the old school way...in my every day life...like at the store, gas station, or waiting in line at the DMV...online sucks. If u take the time to read the whole profile then u would know whether or not u are my type. I clearly spell out what that is.
I may look at your profile and like what I see, but I am old fashioned...I won't message you 1st. I prefer a man who takes the initiative.
IF YOU ARE ALREADY DATING OR INVOLVED ON SOME INTIMATE LEVEL WITH SOMEONE PLEASE PASS MY PROFILE UP. I AM NOT INTERESTED IN BEING ON YOUR TEAM. I PLAY ONE ON ONE. ** I am not one of those fast a$$ hoochies on here looking for a quick hook up, so if that's what you are looking for you need to keep it moving**
When I say I am looking to date, I do not mean date multiple men at once and see where the grass is greener...I mean meet someone nice to date and get to know and see if there is chemistry to lead into a relationship. I am a good woman with a lot of positive things in my life. I have 2 grown kids, a career, and can provide for myself financially. I am looking for that 1 in a million type of man that will allow me to be myself and accept me as I am. I am a curvy/big/plus size girl and if you don't like that, then I am ok with you not trying to get to know me. I like a man that knows how to treat a lady like a lady and who can be sweet, romantic, open, honest, and make me laugh. I like a man that has something going for himself, even if it isn't the best job or the best car...as long as you are getting up every day and trying to make something happen I can work with that. I like a man that can communicate and doesn't close himself off when things are on his mind. I can deal with the truth and can be a shoulder to lean on if you let me. I don't need a lot of time from a man, but the time I get has to be quality time.
I only date black men...nothing personal against other races, just what I like. I realize I am not smiling in my pics but trust me I am not mad or angry, etc...thats just how I prefer to take a pic, so please do not send me a message that says "smile" or "you look mad" or what ever...if you send me a message say something that will make me want to respond. First impressions are usually lasting. So if you send a stupid azz message then don't expect a response. I prefer men 5'10 and taller.
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