I enjoy taking walks, Reading, writing and Rock n Roll and Christian Rock. I may be moving to Santa Barbara to finish school and would like to make a friend who might explain the area some? (of course friendship is foundational to launch into beautiful things!!!)
My goals are still being made, most involve meeting you, becoming your partner and sharing your dreams..It may sound idealistic but i believe that
there is such thing as "a soul mate" or "the perfect partner" Especially if we both realize that there is no such thing as a perfect woman, a perfect man, a perfect parent, child or friend. We are all in this together and loving someone involves much acceptance, much forgiveness, much grace!
Also, sharing life's experiences means being there to laugh and cry with you, to love and adore & to love your child or children as my own Love and Respect are keys that seem to unlock the art of loving at its best. My goal is to inspire you, warm your heart with laughter and keep you warm all winter. ( of course I will enjoy your warmth, your kindness and trust in your good intentions. i will trust that you will not be quick to anger
and that you will love me when i am in sight or out of sight as I will do, not just for you but for my own peace of mind and heart and for
"the us" Our relationship is not "Just for me" I desire for our relationship to reach out and bless our friends, children, parents, sisters and brothers
but not by giving so much that we give up the "us" I think we will take deliberate time for our life long love affair..(make time for each other)
We will find our parts so over flowing with each others love and of divine light that those around will bask in that light, for it is not only our own but like the moon reflects the sun, we will reflect the brilliance of God ...
Still we are human and the dark days will come...We will do our best to light candles and love each other, for a real friend, knows all of your weak points or so called faults and loves you anyway. A real friend comes carefully when to confront, speaking the truth in love, not slandering behind your back, for betrayal diminishes the fires of love. Behind your back, you are loved, to your face you are spoken of...RESPECT and Requests..for
higher love when when our moonlight is waning. (in other words, if I want to confront you or apologize, it is done with you, , not behind you or against you, And holding grudges I refuse to do.. against you or myself. I can not cower to the darkness for our love is flaming higher!
What makes me unique is my honesty and loyalty.I love stimulating conversation with substance and intelligence (but more vital is the language of love... I need gentleness; i am gentle, I am sensitive, I need to touch and be touched; You are the apple of my eye; I prefer you! (of course children are part of you; (but we're not codependent.. we're not carrying our family in our pockets; instead we are carrying our love for them in our hearts!
I enjoy genuine people, conversations with substance (it makes small talk ok if theres also genuine depth) :)
i am looking for a meaningful friendship that will grow into a long term arrangement!
I am loving, kind, honest, sometimes quiet :) and I am not afraid of intimacy!!
I have come to believe that respect, unlike trust, does not need to be earned. I have come to believe that perfection is not love and listening well is all about understanding; Loving is many things, shown in many ways, often different ways by different gender.. But two things that seem prerequisite to preserve love; is honesty and forgiveness. thank you for reading my profile!