About Me
Has this site REALLY worked for anyone ???? hmmm....
OK first, I gotta say this, GUYS - we really don't want to see pics of you kissing your dog, cuddling your ex, or half stripped down flexing in front of a mirror. It's not a good aesthetic start. And the half naked pic in front of a mirror ? ooh baby ooh baby. :) It's the quickest way to make me run the other direction or close the browser window. NOT sexy, guys. Just pics of YOU being YOU is good. :)
Damn this dating stuff at my age absolutely SUCKS. It just aint as easy as it was back when.
OK so it's easier to say what I DONT want & DONT like, than to say what I DO want & DO like. :)
I DON'T like the beach, golfing, yuppies, sushi, "clubbing", nice-boy-next-door types, violence, or pressure. I don't like coloring inside the lines. :) (if you know what that means)
I SMOKE. If this is an issue for you, might as well stop now. It's an ugly habit I am trying to kick,and I've bout conquered it.......... but not quite.
Second, chances of me dating a black man or an Asian man or East Indian man or Middle Eastern man, are slim to none. Sorry just never been any attraction that way. My choice, right ? I have no problem whatsoever "dating" someone younger than I (I actually prefer it), BUT I draw the line beforedating anyone 23 that calls me "Boo" (yeah that actually happened.)
OH YEAH -I CHOPPED OFF ALL THAT HAIR that i have in some of the pics.. looks sooooo much better. :)
I'm very real, very open & honest & down to earth. I grew up around biker types, had that fatal attraction to bad boy types but am tired of losers. I love being outdoors, have a wicked sense of humor, and laugh at dirty jokes, I cuss, but I also rock a dress and 5" heels. ;) I am also VERY stubbornly independent and don't back down from something I believe in.
I really like faded-jeans-and-white-Tshirts kind of guys..not attracted to overweight or corp exec types,(sorry but I'm brutally honest!) I am at the point where my life runs pretty smooth & I would like to sorta have someone in my life on at least a semi-regular basis. That said I am NOT going to jump headfirst into something.... my heads on pretty straight these days. :)
I have learned that relationships are work, you have to put as much into them 6 months from when they began, as you did during that honeymoon stage, to keep them alive and fed..... and that if it isn't happening, it isn't happening, and it makes no sense whatsoever to try to make something into something it never was to begin with.
I despise dishonesty, anBd am honest and real to a fault, and seek the same.
AND. I REALLY DO HAVE IT BAD FOR BADBOYS; I DONT DATE ANYONE MY OWN AGE OR OLDER; DONT DATE BLACK OR ASIAN OR EAST INDIAN MEN.... and a good way to piss me off is if you are any of those and still email me. I like men who can read and comprehend english.... ya know ?
First Date
well, it would have to be something that would allow either of us to make a non-awkward exit, if there were no sparks......... a drink or coffee somewhere would probably be good. And who knows where it could go from there, it depends on the person and the chemistry. I like to take things slow, cause I have jumped in before and regretted it.
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