Average body type
Castro valley, California
5' 2" (157cm),
Christian - other
is looking for a relationship.
what I love to do is sing and be involved with music I grew up in church so gospel is my thang, I love to love and to be loved and haven't had that "true love" in alot of years. My goal is to raise my children to the best of my ability and try to treat others how I would want to be treated! I want a man of his word I've been through alot and tired of lies and deceite that people play, I don't just automatically want to have sex or even be affectionate until I feel some kind of feeling for that person I don't just put it out there, and alot of times guys that's all there looking for and theres alot more to me than that, I want a person to get to know me, for me and the same for the man. I do not give in easily to anything it takes alot to make me feel your worth it otherwise I'm not going to do anything until I feel this is going somewhere, I hope who ever reads this understands where I'm coming from, I'm not into playing games.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
what I would like to do on a first date would be go somewhere and talk I love to be outside. I think that the more you talk the more you'll find out about the person. And I love it when I can tell the man is really actually listening not thinking about how he can "get me" or not really interested in a conversation, because I'm all about conversation. you know find out about your life alittle bit you find out about mine, like that. Yeah, I would love that. If two people start of as friends that's the best relationship to have and most likely it will last. Start of slow and just see where it will take you.. Yeah that's what I want. A real man, are you out there somewhere for me?
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