I'd like to think that I'm a man with old fashioned values. I look at life from a very realistic point of view and I'm very big on communication.
I believe in keeping it real by being upfront, open, honest and true about my intentions, so as not to mislead, deceive or play games with anyone's
emotions or waste their time. I live my life to the fullest (not reckless) each and everyday, with no regrets. It Is What It Is, so let's take it slow and start with a chat.
First dates came be somewhat contentious , so as a southern gentleman my first thought would be to make sure that it's something and somewhere were my new found friend would be comfortable.To be politically correct I would suggest a public place for dinner, somewhere with some low lighting for ambiance and soft background music, conducive for conversation. My intentions would be to create an atmosphere that allows the both us to be true to who we are and what it is, we both honestly seek.. Now on the other hand without the benefit of having a crystal ball or to avoid going into it with preconceived notions and unrealistic expectations.... I would share that, I'm not here to judge or to be judged about other grown people lifestyles or choices and I know that everything ain't for everybody.....But for me, REAL TALK...I'm of the opinion that whatever two grown consenting adults choose to do in their personal space is between them. So on a first date I'm more inclined to go with the flow and live life. For me LIFE, IS, WHAT IT IS !!!!