Who am I and why would you want to meet me? Sometimes I feel like I am an enigma. Totally different from the men around me. I am interested in a emotional and spiritual connection rather then just physical. Although to be honest I would like to be physically attracted to a woman I date but I am not looking for Barbie if that is what I wanted my Daughter has a bunch of them she would let me take out. I am open to experiencing new things but also want someone who will want to experience the things I am interested in. Perhaps not all of them but enough that we can share life. I am a handyman and jack of all trades but also enjoy deep discussions on most subjects and I have held my own in debates with super geniuses and collage professors. I am not looking for sex I am looking for a relationship. I treat women as ladies and am a gentleman at all times. I am a dedicated Dad most weekends to my 8 year old daughter and 15 year old son. I love going for walks in the woods with them and doing crafts. Truly they are the joy in my life but I would really like to find someone to share my life with as I know all too soon they will be grown and gone. I am not looking for a bar buddy as I seldom go to a bar but a drink occasionally is nice. I am a smoker but seldom smoke cigarettes mostly I smoke a pipe. Anyway I have been on here for a few years now and have meet a few nice women but no one who I could fall for. I do work third shift and as I said am a dedicated Dad on the weekends so I need to find someone who is willing to work with an unconventional scheduale. Breakfast anyone?