I'm out going, self sufficient, funny, easy to get a long with, trusting, genuine, enjoy the outdoors, love the water, and so much more. I'm an independent single mother looking for someone with same interests and family oriented or doesn't mind family should you wish a bit more lol. I have 3 adult daughters and a 14 yr old son. My son and my youngest daughter (19) live with me (though 19 yr old may be moving out to go to college in another town). I have 2 grandson's and they are the apple of my eye and also a thorn between my toes. :) To have their energy again... I'd be more than blessed. LOL I am in need of a life! I would actually like to have a long term relationship, however, with anything it all must start from "hello". ( Friendship building.) So am available for dating, friendship or long term (NOTE: No one night stands!!!). Where ever life takes it. (Take it slow) I'd like it one day at a time and build a friendship foundation first. What I want in a man... someone that lives on his own (with or without children) and absolutely unattached (No girlfriend, wife, significant other etc.), has his own vehicle and a job that supports his needs. One that wants to work beside me, share life as it comes, someone to laugh and cry with (hopefully more laughing), a man that's not afraid to communicate, has a sense of humor, knows when to have fun and when to be serious, encouraging, doesn't cheat, enjoys intimacy, is able to dress for the occasion if needed. Has clean hygiene and clothes (a nice smelling man is a turn on), is not a couch potato but loves to cuddle, has interest/hobbies in common, likes children and not married or attached to another in anyway, shape or form. I'm not interested n a one night stand. No alcoholics or drug users or have power craved egos or those seeking a sugar mama. If you smoke or chew: you brush your teeth. Prefer 5'9 or taller. I've lost 20 lbs and am working to loose more if at all possible Nothing like a slow metabolism. I go to the gym, love it. If you wish to see if I have what it takes to meet your criteria... message me and ask. :) Take care. Anjanette PS: If your in a relationship of any kind... I'm NOT interested.