Hey Guys, I'm just going to lay my cards on the table, because I'm honest, direct & upfront - Awhile back, I had major hip surgery due to a pilates injury ~have you heard of -ever used a reformer before?! it's an interesting story...hehe ;) Anyway, I have daily rehab+ for it, so I am a bit limited. Initially, I'd like to exchange some messages &/or chat/IM! I'm sure we can enjoy some great 'talks' & potentially connect that way! Eventually, for the right guy, I could be pursuaded to do more after we got to know each other ;) I definitely look forward to meeting in person and hopefully, feeling some connection/chemistry+ at that time! But I wanted to be honest/upfront & tell you because of my injury, I won't be riding horses, bowling, biking or base jumping anytime soon!!
So, now... where to begin for my profile?! Typically most women describe themselves... So instead I asked my friends to describe me & this is what they said: I'm honest, down to earth, kind, passionate, quirky, confident, gullible ~wait, should I said that? Hehe ~ I can be funny too ;) adventurous, loving & helpful and very optimistic ~always able to see-show the 'sunny side' of a situation! I tell you, that's certainly helped out with my injury & everything that has happened as a result. But hey, what else can you do ~ It is what it is... Life is Wonderful & a Blessing, no matter what happens!
Ok, now I'll share a few more things ~I LOVE to try new things & Enjoy almost Everything! I even used to hang glide*, Rock climb, ride motorcycles & other thrill-seeking* activities, but now, I've pretty much settled down. Of course, I Still Enjoy the Rush* of things - I just try to keep my feet on the ground & live at a more balanced & grounded place now ;) I like to laugh, play, be creative, write, ~ A LOT ~ can you tell? ;) I also like to bowl, ride horses, cook, work hard & help people! :) Obviously some of these things I can't do right this moment due to my injury, but I definitely will do them again eventually...
Overall, I'm a happy, positive & optimistic gal! I may be dealing with my injury for now, but I look forward to many things in the future!! Taking classes 'just for fun' (learn Italian/Spanish, different cooking styles, how to publish a book, etc.), playing piano-cello again, definitely writing and hopefully publishing a book or two or five?!, starting my own business - I've always had a strong entrepreneurial spirit! & who knows what else - I'm open to suggestions ;) I have Awesome-Supportive friends & let's see, could I ask for more?! Well, of course, otherwise I wouldn't be on here!! I would love to have a Wonderful guy in my life (eventually, a Life Partner) ~ someone to enhance my life and we can share our lives together! Isn't that why all of us are here?!
What am I Seeking? A kind, honest, down to earth, handsome, street and book smart, loving and affectionate, independent, funny, romantic guy whose Intention* is to Date wanting something 'meaningful'- not something casual ('Hooking up' doesn't interest me!) ... I've been divorced for several years now and I'm definitely ready for "More"!! A real, loving, passionate, intimate 1-on-1 relationship. Ideally, we would have a blend of similar interests &differences, compatability, communication, chemistry, trust, respect -all the things that keep a Real Relationship alive & strong!
Some of my Interests: Exploring new places-Mts & coast, trying/learning new things, writing, horsebck riding, bowling, reading, going to concerts & plays, going to the dog park, dining-hanging out w/ Friends~Enjoying Great food & convos, playing games, watching movies
Some of my FAV things: Being Cozy by my Fireplace w/ my dog & cat &someone special eventually, watching a movie & listening to rain-thunderstorms, writing/reading, passionate kisses, Italian food, stargazer lilies & carnations, sundresses, bowling, riding horses, good company-food-stories+
I do have some formal education ;) ~but honestly... I think I've learned More from the SCHOOL OF LIFE & REAL LIFE experiences! I've been thru A LOT but I believe it's only made me the Strong, Open, Happy, Giving person I am ;-) Work-wise: I worked in the legal-law enforcmnt field for 15+yrs -yes, it was exciting, challenging -most of all Rewarding* -and then, I took a break for a few years. I also did private paralegal & investigative services to help out folks as well! I have a passion for helping folks & also for the skills* I have!!
As for me - 'what you see is what you get'!! I try my Best to be True to who I am & Encourage others to do the same! I also try to learn & grow more every day!! Let's see... I'll give you a Guarantee ~ I'm probably one of the most REAL & easy going, intelligent, goofy, open, sensual, fun-loving, passionate and sexiest gals you'll ever meet!!
I know it was A LOT to read, but Thank you. So, if what you read sounds Intriguing* & you want to learn more, then email me (& please say more than 'Hi')~ Take a chance, you never know what could happen!! Ciao Gentlemen!!
First date ~well, it depends on what 'we' feeel like... Initially, I'd probably like to just meet & see we connect ~ for a Jamba/coffee ~ something simple/casual! Then, if/when we Connect and decide to go on a first date, then we could decide whatever we want to do... listen to some live music? go for a picnic? play darts or play pool? how about mini-golf, go to a museum or walk through a park? ...or wait, this is a 1st date, hehe ;-) I'm pretty easy going -I like just about everything. I'd probably prefer exchanging a few emails-IMs-convos & then Let's Meet -do something, somewhere & get to know each other!!
What I'm looking for~A kind, honest, down to earth, handsome, street & book smart, loving & affectionate, entertaining, independent, romantic, funny man whose Intention* is to eventually get involved with me in a meaningful, very passionate-intimate relationship. Ideally, I'd like to find someone, Not to Complete my Life, but to ENHANCE it! Someone that I have a Real, Strong Connection with ;-) I'm not interested in casual dating ~ like I said, I'd like to Date with an Intention of having a Relationship. If you don't understand this concept, then please move on... As for qualities/characteristics ~ a special blend of similiar interest, many differences, compatability, communication, chemistry, trust, respect -the many things that keep a Real Relationship going for the long haul*! Oh, & someone with a Childlike Spirit, because I will Always have one :) Ideally, I will bring out the Best in you and I'm sure you'll do the same. Hey, I know it's a lot to ask for... or is it really?! hehe ;)