Okay, I've been on this site since 2006. At first I was not ready to date, and then got involved with lots of my kids activities and there was really no time to date, or time I wanted to make for dating. I'm still involved in an outdoor education program where I volunteer, but I'm now at the stage where I want to make time to date, and may be more open to the trial and error. It's not that I am picky, but given the probabilities, there are likely 99 men out there that could fit the bill of soul mate, and I am just trying to find one of them. Instead of going on about what I am looking for - cause lets get real - doesn't every girl want a fairy tale ending - I do. you know the handsome, tall, secure, rich, the guy who accepts all your faults and loves you unconditionally - you know the magazine type..Ya Right.. So lets get real. here is the grade:
Taller than me - so 5'8" - 6'1"
Meat on the Bones - Not to athletic, not too fat. a bit of jiggle jaggle is sexy to me. Too athletic - sorry I actually find you intimidating
Secure - Yes you have a good stable career. Truck drivers - nothing against you, but I don't want to worry everytime I hear of an accident on the same route you are on. You guys have a stressful life, with all the little cars that whip in front of you, and shorten your stop distance at red lights..Koodles to ya!
Secure - Yes you can make it more than Pay to Pay - I have had a cinderella life - work hard - miss out, I am pay to pay most of the time - I want to be taken care of! Not shallow - I have a decent salary, just stretched.
Handsome - to me is a smooth baby face - shadow is natural - but not messy, sultry eyes, lucious lips, neat hair, clean body, smells goooood. Dresses in more than sweatpants all the time, and will wear shoes other than runners - and yes - nice bum in jeans - gotta have a nice bum in jeans. Oh - mustache - on the fence with that - don't know - never kissed - and wouldn't it scratch and burn....well you know what I mean.
Outdoorsy - likes to hike, camp, hunt, fish - has a boat, or two kayaks or canoe, trailer - hell lets go for cabin at the lake - after all this is my wish list.
Entertainment - will take me to a game once in awhile, - you have to make me feel like one of the boys sometimes, will play pool or darts or go to kareoke once in while, to a movie - or cuddle at home watching TV. Oh singing with me at kareoke is a bonus.
Age - 5 - 7 year age difference please, plus or minus - maturity counts, immaturity gets you thrown out the door, guys this is tough, I've been told I look younger than my age - I do not want to look like your daughter standing beside you - that's all.
Attachments - i mean face piercing - don't find that attractive - tattos are OK - I'm thinking of getting one.
Addictions - No to drugs, No to gambling. No Smoking And No, I won't be your support or coach, if you can't stop before me, you won't stop for me
Family - MUST have good relationship with family, kids and pets - Or have a pretty good reason why you don't like your mother.
All in all, this has been fun - Truly we have to meet before I would do anything anyway. I want someone who will want and love me for me, and if he fits my wish list - Great, if he meets part of it - Great. As long as he treats me and my kids good, will take care of me, and we can build a great relationship - I will be happy.