Update: I'm in Bend now!
Hello out there! I am (finally) moving to Bend to be closer to family. I've been visiting there for over a decade, so this is exciting and will be a big change. I grew up in CA (I am not the typical CA type and left there 10 years ago!), but am relocating to Bend from Alaska. I will miss AK, but looking forward to being in the great outdoors of central Oregon again.
I have many different interests and can carry on conversations about nothing or everything. I get along with most personality types (except for those who are heavily into rap music and/or that kind of lifestyle). I don't do drugs and I don't want to hang out with anyone who does. I can debate and enjoy a good debate/conversation and see all points of view and respect differences. It's important to me that whoever I date also has that attribute. Also, I am happiest when I am outdoors. I don't want to spend my life on the couch.
Friends first is good and friends are good but I will put it out there that I am looking for someone to hang out with for the long haul.....best friend and lover sort of thing (not to be confused with friends with benefits).
I have a good, stable career and goals. I am sometimes shy at first, but that goes away if I feel comfortable around someone. I am looking for someone who is intelligent, honest, trustworthy, affectionate, ambitious, at least somewhat adventurous, knows what he wants and doesn't play mind games, and is mellow/even-tempered. No alcohol abuse or hard drugs, diseases, or kids (no offense). I believe I have these same traits and am looking for the same.
If you would like to know more about me then please say hello (and hopefully a little bit more). =)