UPDATE. Yay I finished college. I am a graduate now. Just started a new career also.
I have reached a time in my life.. Yes, I just turned the big 50.. and I think its awesome. So that being said, I plan on taking on a whole bunch of new things, new career in the works, finishing the book I have been writing, learning new hobbies like cake decorating..
Another new venture in my life SCHOOL.. At 50 I decided to go back to college and get a diploma. Its my present to myself. And I am loving it.
I have 3 part time jobs that keep me hopping, but would definitely make time for the man of my dreams.... :)
I believe that everything we go through in life is just as it was meant to be, and it creates us into who we are. We are all individuals, each with our own beauty. I try to always look for the beauty in everything and every situation. If you feel like life is kicking you around, maybe its simply trying to point you in the right direction.
Truth. Honor. Integrity. Humor. And being in love with who your are first. Carry these traits with you and you are already a winner.
Basically I want to find that person who will be my equal half, not my better half, and definitely not my other half. My equal half. He will know what turns me on, and what turns me off. (not talking about anything sexual either). He will come home from a hard day at work, and find a cute surprise, maybe I was at the store and picked up his favourite chocolate bar, put a ribbon on it, and a note that says, JUST CUZ YOU ARE SWEET.
Ok, so you get the picture. I am a hopeless romantic, and believe in it whole heartedly. Come on guys, you all love to be romanced also.
I would love to spoil my man with love , love, and more lovin.. muah...
I am very spiritual, but not religious. I value friendship, honesty, compassion, oh and honesty again, and love. Good old fashioned God given blessed love. If it is given and received, then it will be enough to sustain you for a lifetime.
Love is: Giving your best self for the good of someone else.
Remember: "Its not about how long you live, its about how you live your life"
I have a passion for writing, and find it also as a source of healing.
All I have to offer is my heart, and for the right person, that will be more than they will ever need or want.
I love being with my daughter, she is my life.
Something simple, but not coffee.. ewwww.
I would rather just wait and see who the person is, because each of us are unique and different. So, to describe a first date would be kinda strange.
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