Getting to know each others likes & dislikes on the phone first I guess or maybe heading out to a coffee shop or somewhere to chat & get a feel for each other. a walk on the centralwest end something thats very artsy or chic. I mean I don't know we don't even know each other yet ya know. SO talking & getting to know each others the main thing. So we can see if we even have a spark for a nice night out. sometimes the first phone conversation can be hard as well cos neither of us has a clue yet so lets just see what happpnes when we talk???