******** Major profile reconstruction underway..lol*******
This is my quote from march until August .... " I don't have a life I have a swimmer!" But ill happily meet you while wasting away at all the practices and events!!! Lol
On this note Aug to nov soccer!
Short and Sweet: Woman seeking intelligent man (book/social/emotional) to be a friend and companion. Trustworthy. Fun. Adult Conversation. Sex. Yup that about covers the short list.
I read a quote on here from someone's profile "Never make someone a priority when you are only an option to them". Who knows who made this famous… I follow this philosophy. I will make the effort no matter how busy my life gets. I expect the same from you. If I feel I am just an option for you or a distraction when you are bored; well to be honest I deserve better than that and so do you.
Things I enjoy: I like to watch (live) Ice Hockey. My son and I had season tickets. I can get season tickets again!!! I love to travel and meet new people. I am a gamer. I don’t require you be a gamer – but have respect. We can debate the when’s, why’s, and whatever’s, but not every blonde is stupid and not every gamer is useless.
I'm not much for going out to bars or clubs or the casino so figured I would try online for meeting new people and possibly relationships. I'm not looking for a drunk or a gambler so why would I go to those types of places to meet men?!?!?! I digress sorry!....lol
A little about Me: Originally from California, I’ve spent the last 6 years in Washington and Michigan just moved back to California.
Most of my free time revolves around kids. I have a 12 year old of my own and we seem to attract all other neighborhood kids to our house. We attend church, do sports, groups, clubs…. The list seems endless. I am looking to meet someone that understands the time restraints and will give me an opportunity for some serious adult time. Kid friendly is a must! It's common for me to think, "Where the heck did they come from?" or "damn it, how did they multiple so quick guess I should make more dinner". Lol
I believe in honesty and Christian values. This is not to say I'm a bible pusher or avid church go’er. Far from it, but I do believe in right and wrong, and respecting yourself as well as others, etc. (as a side note I’m trying to attend church with my son, but I haven’t felt at home in one in a long time. I don't like 2 faced people and I have trouble getting past that when I see it in church). Open for discussion and I am open minded.
Communication Styles: I'm honest and blunt to a fault. I will speak the truth as I see it and if asked a direct question I will answer. I understand that lots of people call themselves honest. I am looking for someone that can be just as honest and straight forward with me. Reading between the lines of every conversation makes my head hurt. I am looking for someone that will get to know me, that I can have trust in, and faith that they are telling me the truth. If in doubt ask – don’t assume. I will clarify and help you understand as many times as you request.
Further Reading: Hmm YOU are still here… cool! and want more…. Interesting! **Digs through the recesses**
I speak 2 languages Danish and English. I can't stand liars, blatant repetitive stupidity, flakes or self centered people.
I love the water must live near it or I get land phobic or some such nonsense. Love the look of snow but hate to be out in snow and ice. (I'm a natural born klutz so add ice and snow and guess what happens?!??).
I LOVE trying new things (be open to all experiences) and I will always choose the small hometown business over the chain.
I despise shopping..........ya ya really I'm a woman and hate shopping go figure lol
I tend to be somewhat quiet in person. I like to observe and get a feel for who I'm with and my surroundings. Don't let this fool you I do have opinions and I'm not afraid to state them. I do just prefer to go with the flow if I don't have an opinion or honestly don't care.
I am a bit of an old fashioned kind of a girl I expect my man to have an opinion and be able to take action and go for what he wants within reason. I'm also single because I'm searching for the right one and not just settling. Family is very important to me and yes this includes friends as in my opinion they are the family that you choose.
I WANT a man. I don't NEED a man. Please understand the difference in these statements.
I value my friends and people I date because I CHOOSE to be with them, get to know them, and spend time with them.
I'm not particularly good at describing myself hmmm maybe a better thing to do would be to give you a few friends e-mails they can describe me better I'm sure....lol j/k Well my friends are willing, need a reference?
OK well I think I have rambled on enough for now. Should you want to chat more and get to know me you can reach me on YIM as trena792001. Or send me an email.
Ahhhh yes I am a BBW it’s just how I am built if that is a problem for you I'm sorry but I do understand :) It’s kinda like I'm not attracted to men shorter than 5 ft 7in
Get to know each other a bit and have some fun. I'm a firm believer in...."It's not what you are doing but who you are doing it with."
*****so there is no confusion .... Reasonable Internet dating... Few texts/chats/email whatever (Not looking for months of texts just a can we communicate also tells me how much time you are willing to put into me once a day communicate, once a week, etc) ... Move to phone atleast one call before meet (I mean really if we can't hold a few minute conversation on the phone what do you think is gonna happen in person) then meet .... Those things being said I'm quiet at first meeting Cus to be honest before I fully open up I want to know ill see you again so I'm not wasting my time and energy. Sorry I'm not in high school where I can be some silly school girl that is bubbly and fawns all over you. I'm past that.... So I'll give you a chance if you give me the same. Well or hey here is a challenge for you........ lets just have fun and get the silly school girl too come out .... Lol *****
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