I am just looking. Though aren't we all?
Oh and btw? " my children will always be #1 in my life" or words to that effect. It should go without saying that you care about your kids. That said, announcing that someone that you potentially want as part of your life will NEVER be higher than #2 in your life.. is not really effective advertising. Children grow... and then they go... and live their own life. And if you never put much faith or effort into your mate, and this goes equally as well for men as it does for women... then you are headed down the road to divorce or splitting up. One of the major problems in the " relationship" world is that men and women forget that they should always be first to each other... the best service men and women BOTH can provide to any child is to show them a healthy loving trusting relationship.