Looking for someone. I'm seeing that most of you are shallow on pof and looking to see the best you can hook. You're here to try to find some one better. Not make a commitment to a person. Not get to know a guy. Most of you have a boy friend or date men often or are married. This is the bottom of the fish bowl at times.
Most of u are so used to men coming unto u that you have a throw away idea of relationships. Most of you have commitment issues.
I have no family in this area. I'm lonely. Lets cut the crap. If you want sex or dating or movies or dinner. Let me know.
If you want committed I can do that also.
When I was a man whore I admitted it. When I made a mistake I apologized. I didn't have to hide or cheat or lie. I don't know why so many people act like their different and gotta play head games.
I'm really into this song lately by civil wars called dust to dust I think or called civil wars. Got it on my iTunes
It is so sad to see so many people so confused who run around saying I'm going to do my own thing. A generation of confused people. Living from high to next high be it sex or drugs or drinking or ego tripping.
If its all about you. Who else can it be about? Who else can fit the picture?
I can't believe how many people do the opposite of what they say. It's crazy.
If I keep doing the same things over daily can I expect diff results? Garbage in garbage out.
If you can see past my childish rants and actually want to talk please email or chat me.
Remember I use pof iPhone app and its set up like a chat window so to you it might look like 5 emails but to me it's a messenger.
About me: open, honest, caring, also I care enough to tell you if you're wrong or just confused. Why would I let you keep looking foolish? Second oldest of 6. Hard working, stable.
If you can't have me at my worst you can't have me at my best.
I have a zero tolerance for lies, games and bull shit. I am not the best speller or grammar person but I am a highly intelligent person who is no fool. I've been around the block a few hundred times. My eyes are open. I'm not controlling and I don't want to be up your ass. I don't have to see you every day. When It's time for us to have our time it's our time unless agreed other wise. I'm not a jealous person but if you start putting out red flags I will not be afraid to ask questions or talk about it or even stop talking to you.
I fully believe if you're gonna do some thing than do it right the first time. I know my self and I know who I am and what I want. I'm not afraid of love , work, or commitment and I know the difference between being in love or lust and love. I know the difference between the honey moon phase and when a relationship gets real.
I can build or rebuild a house or car from the ground up. am the second oldest of my moms kids and the first oldest of my mom and dads kids. Nothing gets by me. I am very forgiving and patient and very loving towards people but I don't tolerate being used or lied to. I handle problems very well and I handle mistakes extremely well. I don't handle lies or games well at all. I immediately see thru them. I will not put my hands on a lady and a lady will not put her hands on me. I'm not on this earth to just pretend life is so great and happy. I'm a realist. I'm to educated to think I don't sin or make mistakes from time to time. People who don't know them selves well or think their sh*tdon't stink or who are immature might say I'm kinda conceded but people who know me say I'm not. I like to live life to the fullest and make the most of life. I enjoy a balance. I enjoy knowing my woman is help full and loving and faith full and when she acts that way it puts me at peace and keeps me from being up her ass. I put all of me into my relationships so can you blame me if I care? I'm not looking for a date. I'm not looking for some one to talk to a few days a week. I'm looking for a partner. For a best friend. If daily phone calls annoy you then you might be a player still and not even realize. I'm looking for that person when you leave your parents and your all alone this person come in and compliments your life. They become your good friend. They are happy to be around you.