I am a woman who appears to be shy at first...I am really observing a situation before jumping in. Once I'm comfortable, I open up. I work in local government as an eligibility worker in Medi-Cal. I try my best to be empathetic to others' needs. I enjoy singing at my church choir as well as singing karaoke. I go to church regularly, but am NOT a conservative Christian. I am more moderate in my views, even liberal at times. Nevertheless, I would like to marry in the Catholic church. Politically, I am moderate to liberal...a Republican would be out of the question. I would like to meet a man between the ages of 40 to 55, around 5'8" to 6'2" in height. Qualities I look for include a good sense of humor, self-confidence (not conceitedness), trustworthiness, a kind heart, a youthful (not childish) spirit, etc. I am attracted to an intelligent man who is able to communicate well both verbally and non-verbally. Good looks are nice, but what is inside a man counts more. I have no aspirations of being a mother. It's OK if a man has children, but they need to be over 18 (due to child support concerns). If a man is divorced, it's OK, but he has to be able to marry in the Catholic Church. A Catholic would be preferable, but I am open to a non-Catholic as long as he respects my religious beliefs. I am open to any ethnicity...I am primarily Filipino with some Spanish blood. I strive to be an excellent person...perfection only exists in heaven. As for music, I have diverse tastes. I like R&B, rock, pop, classical, jazz, etc. I admit that I don't know a lot about country music, but am open to learning more about it.