I think at this age it's just best to be transparent. These are my good qualities & here are some not so good qualities. This is what I absolutely can't live without & this is what I could not live with. I just want to respect myself & the people taking the time to read my profile. So, here it goes...
First and foremost, My faith is VERY important to me. I will not compromise that. I have lived the life away from God and it has brought me nothing but trouble. I believe He has a plan for me - whether or not I meet my better half through this avenue or not, time will tell. So, I just ask to be respected and I will do the same for you. Don't worry - your beliefs or practices would not be a deal breaker for me - I am not looking to force my faith on anyone!!
I do enjoy going out And having a couple drinks & being in good company. I love festivals, live music, karaoke, bowling, sporting events, etc. I must say I am beyond the oblivious drunk who needs to either drink or be on some kind of drug to have fun. I have been in that kind of relationship & found it to be extremely toxic for me. Having fun socially is one thing - being obnoxious and drunk every night is just not for me.
I look for ways to make people smile, it's just who I am. I rarely focus on the bad. I feel like happiness is a choice. Unfortunately we cannot control what will be thrown our way, but we can control how we handle it.
Are you still with me?? Family is very important to me. My family has a lot of "character" & history but we are very close. We are hugs & kisses, anyone is welcome kind of people. That's the kind of man I'd love to find, non judgemental, compassionate, family guy. :)
I will lay out the bad stuff because I feel it's only fare - I have PCOS (polycystic ovarian syndrome) which makes it difficult for me to obtain that Barbie like figure and it has also prevented me from having children. I always pictured myself being a mom one day so if I meet a man who already has kids - that is something I would welcome with open arms.
Wow, if I still have your attention - PROPS!!
So, to wrap it up, I'm looking to find a man who has his life somewhat together. I understand that at this age we ALL come with "baggage" some of sort - with a past, but I'd like to meet someone who doesn't dwell on the past but rather looks forward to the next chapter in life. I would like someone who is not afraid to talk, who can look for the good in people & someone who encourages me to be a better person.
If I have not scared you or caused you to fall asleep, please feel free to send me an email.
If I do not fit what it is that you are looking for, I wish you the best of luck in your search!
SMILE AND BE THE BEST YOU THAT YOU CAN BE TODAY!!!
Personally, I don't have a first day "must" I think as long as your in good company with someone who can hold a conversation, anything can be fun!