I have decided to rewrite my profile to soften up my likes and dislikes as I've received some feedback that my previously written profile was a little too harsh. I honestly did not intend for it to sound harsh but I think at this age it's just best to be transparent. These are my good qualities & here are some not so good qualities. This is what I absolutely can't live without & this is what I could not live with. I just want to respect myself & the people taking the time to read my profile. So, here it goes...
First and foremost, My faith is VERY important to me. I will not compromise that. I have lived the life away from God and it has brought me nothing but trouble. I believe He has a plan for me - whether or not I meet my better half through this avenue or not, time will tell. So, I just ask to be respected and I will do the same for you.
I do enjoy going out every once in awhile, I like to have some drinks & be in good company. I love festivals, live music, karaoke, bowling, sporting events, etc. I must say I am beyond the oblivious drunk who needs to either drink or be on some kind of drug to have fun. I have been in that kind of relationship & found it to be extremely toxic for me.
I am the kind of person who says "bless you" to strangers, offers to take the elderly mans cart back up to the store, holds the door open even if it means waiting an extra 30 seconds while someone approaches the entrance. I look for ways to make people smile, it's just who I am. I rarely focus on the bad. I feel like happiness is a choice. Unfortunately we cannot control what will be thrown our way, but we can control how we handle it.
Are you still with me?? Family is very important to me. My family has a lot of "character" & history but we are very close. We are hugs & kisses, anyone is welcome kind of people. That's the kind of man I'd love to find, non judgemental, compassionate, family guy. :)
I will lay out the bad stuff because I feel it's only fare - I have PCOS (polycystic ovarian syndrome) which has some terrible side effects which I believe make it VERY hard to meet someone. 1. It causes weight gain & makes it hard to lose. I've struggled with this for 10 years but I will NEVER give up. So in a lot of cases I do not meet the criteria of what men want in a girl, physically. 2. I may never be able to have children. THIS is me "demon" I LOVE kids, this is a very hard thing for me but I am very open about it. I believe God allows things to happen in our lives for a greater purpose. I am trying to turn the pain of infertility into something positive by helping others who may also be struggling with this. It's a work in progress. So, I am more than open to a man with children.
Wow, if I still have your attention - PROPS!!
So, to wrap it up, I'm looking to find a man who has his life somewhat together. I understand that at this age we ALL come with "baggage" some sort of a past, but I'd like to meet someone who doesn't dwell on the past but rather looks forward to the next chapter in life. I would like someone who is not afraid to talk, who can look for the good in people & someone who encourages me to be a better person.
If I have not scared you or caused you to fall asleep at the computer, please feel free to send me an email.
If I do not fit what it is that you are looking for, I wish you the best of luck in your search!
SMILE AND BE THE BEST YOU THAT YOU CAN BE TODAY!!!
Personally, I don't have a first day "must" I think as long as your in good company with someone who can hold a conversation, anything can be fun!