LIFE IS WHAT YOU MAKE IT ... MINE IS AWESOME!
You know the old saying "Never say,'never'"...well I swore I would NEVER EVER in a million years do this online stuff, after all, I meet plenty of people on my own. But after allowing a couple of my friends to be guinea pigs at this & to see some of the fun people they've met, I've decided to give it a try...so here goes (deep BIG breath)!
A FEW THINGS ABOUT ME: genuine, honest, caring, sensitive, loyal, respectful, down to earth, energetic, social butterfly, outgoing, extrovert, comfy in own skin, healthy self-esteem, sense of humor, quick-witted, I speak sarcasm when in the company of others who also speak &/or appreciate the language, sapiosexual, creative, close to family & friends. I'm never bored...ever! Boredom shows lack of creativity. TV does absolutely nothing for me, and neither do couch potatoes. TV is reserved for an occasional football/baseball game, however, I'd much rather go to a sports venue or pub to watch the game. I choose to label my marital status as "single", although, I have been MWC (married w/children). "Divorced" seems to be regarded with such stigma. I am friends w/my former hubby, his wife, their families incl, their small children. I've also maintained healthy relationships w/former SOs. If you are not cool w/this, or secure enough to get it, we are not a match.
I'm a native San Diegan who loves life! Still a little girl inside & love having FUN...like pretending to be the Morton Salt Girl, come rain or shine! I believe in God. I believe in Karma. I believe in the Sandman & I still believe in Santa! My cup is neither half full, nor half empty, mine runneth over! I enjoy staying healthy, fit & youthful. My lifestyle has pretty much always been active, and is very important for me, which also translates into an emotionally and physically bonded relationship. I've been rollerskating most of my life, and I still skate every week, mostly indoors, but also on the boardwalk. Most types of dancing move me. Socializing, mingling & nights on the town are fun. And believe it or not, this "girly girl" used to race high-performance go-karts...up for a few laps on the track? I enjoy a variety of music (NO heavy metal, NO head banging noise, NO rap), I tickle the ivory for self-enjoyment. My loyalty will always remain w/my hometeams...Go Padres...Go Chargers! I look forward to traveling to Italy, Greece, Switzerland, Australia & more! Hey, by chance, any badminton players out there?
WOULD LIKE TO LEARN: more yoga, golf, shoot pool, ride horseback, and more.
A FEW OF MY FAVORITE THINGS: I love the coast the most! Although I typically do not drink, I do enjoy an occasional sake, and almond champagne once in a blue moon. I still love Barbies, sexy dresses and skirts, heels, cowgirl boots, vintage items, shopping...
FAVORITE QUOTE/JINGLE: "We, girls, can do anything, right Barbie!"; "Cinderella is proof that a pair of shoes can change your life!", "Can't never did!"
PET PEEVES: liars, thieves, chronic interrupters (different than conversational interjections), inconsiderate, rude & disrespectful people. That women's lib and society have emasculated men. Profiles w/no pics, and messages to the tune of "hi", "hey", "hello", "how are you". I also have ZERO tolerance for drunks, druggies, 420, & those who drive under the influence. In my book, it isn't "Cali"...it's California, Californya, CalifornYeah, or superCALIfragilisticexpialidocious!
A FEW THINGS ABOUT YOU: Accept me for the person I am, have similar qualities to mine. Not necessary to possess the same exact interests, but must have a zest for life & what life has to offer. General health, fitness & hygiene is important to you...for w/o it, there is little else (in my opinion). Be the man, initiate contact...yeah, I'm traditional like that. If you're simply looking for a hook-up...go shake the next coconut tree. Oh, & don't be one of my pet peeves!
~THE MORE I LEARN ABOUT OTHERS, THE MORE I LEARN ABOUT MYSELF...SO BE SURE TO CHECK BACK FOR PROFILE UPDATES~
It has been said that a picture can paint a thousand words...but I say a thousand words can paint a pretty good picture!
FOOTNOTE 1: I'm not a "serial dater", and I don't give out my personal info indiscriminately, including ph/email addr. When I feel comfortable enough to do so, I will. If/when I'm comfortable to meet you, I might. If push comes to shove, I won't...in other words, don't push me. Please respect my online safety zone. I live a busy life, so patience is appreciated.
FOOTNOTE 2: Regarding the Meet Me feature, initially I didn't realize that it's based upon pix alone, not the person's actual profile contents, and that it tells the person that I'd like to meet them. Pix alone are not going to make me want to meet someone, and POF needs to rethink that feature. On the same token, someone may've done the same with mine. Accordingly, I don't take Meet Me notifications seriously.
FOOTNOTE 3: Rejection is not fun, nor telling a person the reason/s we may not be a good match. Should I not respond, it's most likely that I don't feel we're a good match. Please don't take it personal. Potatoe/Potatah! If you are "separated" (still legally married), DO NOT contact me.