I am a 38 year old male looking for a fun, spunky, sexy, independent woman, who likes to be around the person she loves. She should enjoy life, be optimistic, live life like it is great, and always believe the glass is half full. Cooking is one of my passions and my match must love food, love to cook as well aa and love to eat. I like working out and taking care of my self, so she should as well. This does not mean in that I like stick figures. I am attracted to a woman who looks like a woman, and this means something to grab on to in all the right places. I am super sensual and love to caress my woman's body, well you know what I mean. My soul mate should at least share some of the same values and outlook on life as I do. This does not mean she has to like everything I do as well as share the same exact values as myself. We should be at lest on the same page and share some of the same likes an dislikes about love, life and everything in between. She should be her own person who has her own beliefs and disbeliefs. I would never try to change a person, especially the one I love. I would like to meet someone who eventually wants to start a family and settle down when the time is right. There are many ups and downs in life and it is important to me the my mate not get to stuck on past events. Holding things inside can tear a person up, so let it go. Don't sweep it under the carpet, but get over it and talk about how things can be better. One of the biggest beliefs I have is a person should always be able to say Please, Thank You, and the biggest I'M Sorry. One must be able to admit when they are wrong and have the decency to say im sorry when they are.