I was going to shut down my POF account like I've done in the past. I fall into that much hyped statistic "the over 40" and the "never marrieds." I've almost come to the conclusion the person I'm looking for wouldn't be on a site like this. I don't want to spend anymore time fending off scammers or those in the market for a bootycall or friends with benefits. For me, sex is the easy part. Finding someone who complements me spiritually, psychically, emotionally, mentally, and physically has been the challenge.
I've been lucky to have met some great friends through POF. So I'll stick to maintaining those friendships for the time being.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Still working at a high-intensity job so I have some odd days off mid-week. I have online friends from everywhere but I only date locally. Local equals reachable within the MBTA system. I'm open to a cup of tea or coffee to start.