I have never been on one of these sites before but since I have NEVER been a fan of "the bar" I suppose this might work. I like to go to the gym 3-4 days a week. I enjoy "spur of the moment" roadtrips, relaxing at home, listening to music or playing with my Classic cars or motorcycle . I would rather read a book (I love my Kindle) than watch T.V., that is why I don't have cable but plenty of DVD's. I can honestly say I have never hit or cheated on anyone I have ever dated. Not into drama or high maintenance women, I am too laid back to deal with that. I tend to gravitate toward the "sweet and shy"- "girl-nextdoor" type but you never know who you will fall for. Also I don't like watching sports, there is too much to do in this world than waste time with that. I love to travel, I have been to most U.S. states, as far north as Montreal Canada as well as Germany, Austria, Switzerland and Italy. Most of my friends are married and have kids so I really do not have many people to hang out with.....maybe you could change that?