I'm a genuinely good guy, looking for the right girl, ultimately for that one lasting long-term relationship. This is my first time ever being on any kind of "dating" site. I have no problems meeting people. A couple of my friends have met people here, so I figured...why not?
--I am (and/or am told that I am):
Very straightforward/open & honest, loyal & trustworthy, intelligent, witty & funny, attractive, affectionate, thoughtful, attentive, articulate, unique, eclectic, optimistic, realistic, ambitious, health-conscious, hard-working, self-sufficient, super handy, and humble(?)...Although I don't feel so humble after listing all that nice stuff about myself...ha.
I would like to meet someone who fully appreciates those kinds of qualities, and I hope to find someone with some of the same traits. I would appreciate each of them greatly. Although I always have a lot of big goals, dreams, and ambitions, I am completely content and comfortable with who I am and where I am in life....and I would just like to share it all with that girl that is perfect for ME.
going out to dinner, out for live music (and playing it myself too!), whether it's seeing my friends' local bands or big Arts Center shows, going down to AC occasionally, working on projects around the house & yard, winding down at night and watching a good movie, hanging outside by the pool on a nice warm night, having friends over for dinner/games/conversation, and so many other things...
--I am NOT a big fan of:
bad music (i.e. most "rap/hip hop", "new" country, and any other music that's just crappy...haha), watching sports on tv...boring, being anything like the "typical guy" that I can't stand,...
--I have no tolerance for:
drugs (including overuse of prescription ones), lies, the often mentioned so-called "head games"..whatever that is..lol, frequent pessimism, recurring irrationality,...
I should say that I am not really the pursuing/chasing type. I really cannot stand the type of guys who hit on girls left and right (tools!), so I have always been the antithesis of that, and I very rarely send a first message on here. However, I AM very easy going, and easy to talk to and be around, so please feel free to write to me. Some have told me that I look kind of "bad boy"...lol, but that I am really good underneath that.
Everyone I've talked to here seems to have stories about others who lie about their age, height, weight, status, and everything else they can think of to make themselves sound better. None of that BS here. I actually want to find someone who likes me for me, so I don't even understand why someone would lie or exaggerate on here.
By the way, an addendum... I have no interest in talking to women that have the typical photos on here of themselves in some team's jersey, or whatever you wanna call it. Did they just get off of a field? That's only attractive to the guys who have no life, and live vicariously through some dude on a team that they've never even met. Also, please be able to construct a sentence, and spell a good portion of the words correctly. I wouldn't even mention any of this if it wasn't *so* very common on here...:)
Well... Any questions? Feel free to message me and ask away. I actually really like questions. :)
I don't really look at a first meetup as a "date". It seems that the usual natural progression here is to converse through a couple of messages, then chat or talk on the phone, then if you find some things in common and still have a mutual interest, meet up for a drink or whatever. If that goes well, then I'm up for all kinds of fun stuff. :)