My name is Rick. I am number 638,432 on the meat list of POF. The meat list is like the lunch meat line at the deli. You know you grab a ticket and see what number you are. Yeah...I'm number 638,432. I have been waiting for a long long time. It's ok though. I'm a big boy I can handle it. Some day I will find that person who I can be just as content with if we are doing yard work or out on the town.
Anyway my 1st love besides family and friends is Music. I get lost in it. It helps get me through the bad times and learn from the worse ones. I would trade one of my legs for a singing voice. I know A LOT of people say they love music but I doubt many of them do as much as me. Real Hip Hop is my favorite but nothing can touch the soul like a rock song.
I'm a big Philly sports fan but it's not much fun going to games by yourself. I need that someone who would prefer a night out at a Phillies game as opposed to a night out at a bar.
I live back at home. This I DON'T LOVE. This is not how I expected my life to turn out but the mistakes I've made brought me here. All I can do is keep my head up and work and save to get where I want to be. I also know many people are super judgmental and look down on people who live at home when they are older. I am not proud of my situation either and nor do I need to be reminded of my failures by strangers. If life was so easy we would all be married with kids, successful and we wouldn't be here. I have a car, a license, money in my pocket and HUGE heart so if that's not enough then I hope you find what you are looking for.
I am no longer looking for a relationship nor do I want to jump right into one with the 1st person I meet. I used to do that all the time. I guess I just don't want to be alone like a lot of people so I settle for the 1st thing that peaks my interest. I want to make better choices and be with someone who inspires me to be a better person. Someone who is positive and will be there to tell me "Baby it will be ok" and in turn I will be there to do the same.
Also I will NOT message anyone on here 1st anymore. It's not about chivalry ladies because I am a 100% gentlemen. It's because single guys seem to outnumber women and I don't want to be on the long list of guys that are hitting you up. If you like me then just send me a message and we can go from there. This place is loaded with guys who are just looking for a booty call. That is not me. Never has been and never will be. I'm a guy so of course I like sex as much as the next person but I need more then that. I need someone to make me believe that there are actually good people out there with good intentions. I don't need anymore drama in my life. I've had enough for 10 lifetimes and 99% of the time it's because of other people that shouldn't matter. I am easy going, I love deeply and I try my best to not be too judgmental of others. We have all made mistakes. It's human nature. I will always tell you exactly how I feel if you ask. I pull no punches.
In closing I will say this I am NOT attracted to heavy women at all. I AM attracted to a woman with meat on her bones but not a BBW or whatever crazy name there is for an overweight person. Call me shallow, call me rude, call me ignorant I really don't care. There is someone out there for everyone so please look elsewhere if you are heavy. I hate having to even say this but I have NEVER in my life had a heavy woman hit on me out in the world but on here I get bombarded! Stay away! *runs and hides*