I have been widowed and alone for 14 years. that's long enough. I hope to find an active fit self reliant and confident woman to share life and love with. Conservative a must.
If you seek a politically correct ass kisser, pass on by. I am very direct, open and blatantly honest. I am always open to learn, but bring facts to the discussion.
I am very outgoing and make friends easily. And, more importantly, my friends are forever.
I admire a strong and self reliant woman who is passionate, compassionate, and intelligent. Physically fit (appropriate for age) is important. I don't mind a few extra pounds, but remember that this means 5 to 20 or so, not 50 to 200. Please be honest first & foremost.
I don't do any social media chatting, or texting, until I know someone fairly well. Been there & done that and paid some heavy tolls for it, and wont go there again.
Eyes are the first thing I see in a woman. I am most attracted to athletic and fit women with dark or red hair, however, this is minutia. Glamour shot pictures are OK, but the real woman, is what I seek.
I am what six decades of life has molded. As will my someday companion be. Accepting this, and reveling in the pleasing aspects and ignoring the less likable ones is the key to success
Man & woman are first attracted to an image of glamour, or masculinity. This is short lived if a relationship grows. A real test is finding the other attractive when awaking in the morning to the grumpiness, disheveled hair, unshaved or no make-up. Moreover, when coming home from a hard days work or play, in desperate need of a shower and clean clothes.
If I have piqued your curiosity, why not send a message?
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Myriad Gardens Cafe
Two great places with terrific food and a quiet Booth to chat.
Always game for something new though.