Looking for a girl to laugh with that can be playful, yet serious when needed and knows what she wants in life.
I'm me! I'm almost always smiling or laughing about one thing or another.
I'm the guy that can start the day off with nothing more planned than meeting someone for coffee and end up three states over to check out some cool thing I've been told about by the time the sun sets. So yes, I would like to find someone that is active and doesn't mind being spontaneous.
Things i enjoy doing? Being in a canoe on the water, fishing, exploring places i have never been, traveling, walks through nature. I relax by drawing portraits or breaking out the camera to take pictures of things that catch my attention. Yes i love outdoorish things, fishing, and the sort.
What am I looking for in a girl? well personality is more important than anything else, as well as the ability to hold a conversation. That will keep two people together for years, even after looks have faded and dont really matter anymore. Having said that though, there does have to be at least some sort of physical attraction between two people, so yeah........ lol. Just looking for someone that is mature, loves to have fun doing tons of different thing. Self confidence and comfort is extremly attractive. Show me a girl that is ok with hanging out wearing no make up, hair tossed in a ponytail or whatever, and i will show you a keeper.
I want the girl that can hold her own with me and keep up. Thats not afraid to speak her mind, and when we disagree has no problem tackling me so we can settle it with a wrestling match on the floor. Be warned, lol i am playful, and affectionate.
I am a single father with full custody, so kids are not an issue for me. If that is a problem, sorry.
BTW I'm not looking for a one night stand, a hook-up, or to join you and your partner in bed. Thanks but no thanks. Also, no crazy stalker chicks with tons of crazyness surrounding you please. Thanks i like my drama to be on the TV not in my life lol. and active means active, if you have doubts about this, then you probably couldnt handle me or keep up lol im just saying.
I smoke, but definately want and need to quit, such a hard thing to do.
Also, the title i have there is a joke people, i dont need messages telling me its a waste of time repairing dispoasble lighters. And yes they are serious messages...........
Got any questions? feel free to ask.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
This should be something fairly simple, and probably not last too overly long, coffee or meeting for lunch or dinner. This gives people a chance to ease into things and get to know one another a little bit in person. But that is not to say that meeting up for coffee couldn't turn into doing something else afterwards like a walk, or whatever. If we are feeling like something offbeat and not the norm, pehaps a hour or so at a firing range, or something else crazy.