WHAT I’LL BRING TO A RELATIONSHIP
The strength of a relationship isn’t measured by the looks or achievements of the couple. It’s measured by what each person does when the other is down and by how they both react when the relationship is down. When the woman who wins my heart is down for any reason there’s one thing she’ll always be able to count on from me: never-ending complete support, period. No exceptions. When our relationship is rocky I will make whatever changes I need to in order to improve it and expect she will also. We've each gotten used to doing things in certain ways after living alone for so long but that time has shown me how much more important a relationship with the right woman is than making even a huge number of changes on trivial issues like where the milk should go in the refrigerator.
I’m content with what I’ve done and do (owned and ran an Indy-car team as a hobby, am developing a high-speed digital video golf coaching aid with a PGA member, earned degrees from two top-20 schools, stay fit, was an engineer in Silicon Valley, dance well, took motorcycle tours, ...) and I am relaxed and easy to be around. Some of the things I do are:
- I listen.
I won’t just nod my head but I’ll hear what you’re saying
- I give real compliments frequently.
If I like how you’ve done something I’ll say so and I will frequently tell you how pretty you are not because of what you’re wearing or how you’re done up but just because you’re beautiful (I wouldn’t have written you if I didn’t think you were).
- I’m chivalrous.
I always do things like getting the door for ladies or doing all the driving between our towns.
- I’ll often make remarks at least one of us will find humorous :-)
I’m amused by things like asking what would happen if there were no hypothetical questions to wondering whether a fly without wings would be called a walk.
- I’ll remember the important things
I’ll find out, commit to memory, and use knowledge like how you like your coffee, what makes you grin, how firm you like your massages, your favorite restaurants, season, etc.
The only time you’ll see me angry is when I’m after someone who has hurt you in any way.
The most beautiful women to me have a mix of kindness and self-confidence. I’ll fall in love with a woman because she has those two qualities and others not because of what she’s done. She can surprise me with what she likes to do and I’ll enjoy doing it no matter what it is because I’ll like seeing her happy.
We’re two independent people who don’t need each other but may eventually choose to share life together. Whomever I share it with and I will enjoy being together and respect and admire one another. We’ll discuss and debate almost anything and not get mad when we disagree.
ALWAYS THERE TO COUNT ON
I said it first in my profile and I'll say it last since it is so important: The one thing my partner can always count on getting from me at a world class level: never-ending complete support.
If you think we might get along, send me a message and let's chat.
If you’re reading this because I wrote to you then please do me the favor of sending even a one-sentence reply if you aren’t interested.