I have been off here for a while and tried something that wasn't there & have just been there for my best friend who as he is going thru some stuff, I have just been trying to be there and help out. So haven't really been into the whole dating thing cause didn't want to have to worry about any added stress. But, I' am tired of the same ol' sh*t over and over again. I want a real LONG TERM adult relationship. If you don't, please move on. I don't know why people are so afraid of relationships nowadays, but I'm not and I want someone that's not either!
I believe you gotta speak how you feel and not be afraid to feel it or say it! If someone doesn't have those same feelings back, they weren't meant to be. Gotta stop trying for things that aren't going to work!
So anyway, I guess I'll tell you a little about me, but it's always better to get to know someone NOT by typing it all out! ;)
Well, im always horrible at these kinds of things. But here goes nothing! I love being outdoors, going camping! I am kinda shy at first, but once we get to know each other, im usually pretty outgoing and CAN be kinda loud. So i want someone that is NOT SHY! I need to find someone to balance me when we first get to know each other, and then once we do... we will be just perfect together!
Also, BIG, HUGE, thing on my list... is FAMILY! I love my family with all my heart and they keep me sane! I dont know where i would be with out them! I want a guy that is the same way! i have a very close family and a big extended family! Whether it is blood related or not, they are still family and they all mean the world to me!
I love my friends! I love being able to just be goofy and myself and not have a worry in the world! If we didnt all have friends, where would we all be? Oh, wait, we would all be sittin at home doing NOTHING... all the time! haha...
Ok, well, enough rambling. I'm just waitin to hear back from you in hopes that you liked what u read!
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I want a man that will plan dates! I don't wanna be asked "Well idk? What do YOU want to do?" - I'll plan some dates, but def the first date, I want a man that is able to make those decisions up front. For sure!