If you take the time to read this I don't think you will be disappointed.
My name is Scott and I just moved here from Texas. I am looking for someone with a good sense of humor and wants to get to know someone first. I enjoy the water, whether it's sitting on the beach or just being at the lake. I served six years in the Navy as a rescue swimmer (SAR). I worked for a major homebuilder before the housing market declined in 2007. During the recession I went back to school and got my CNA, EKG, phlebotomy license. Building and construction is my passion and where my heart is. I do volunteered to keep my certification but I am back in construction.
Now that the boring stuff is out-of-the-way ...
I believe in friends first. ( Pretty eyes are my weakness ) I also believe in starting slow and being honest. I am the type of guy that would do just about anything for the woman I'm with and her children. What I'm really looking for is someone that I enjoy being around and enjoys being around me. Sometimes I think people put a little bit too much emphasis on labeling. Just because is not labeled doesn't mean that it isn't there. When I'm with somebody that's the only person I'm with I don't sleep around and that's not what I'm looking for either. I've been told I do too much for people which causes them to take me for granted. I don't believe that if I'm helping somebody is because I want to and a lot of times I don't mind being taken for granted a little. But there is a line there does come a time when enough is enough. If somebody's not going to help themselves and I feel like I'm becoming enabler are being used I will cut it off. Please do not take my silence and kindness for weakness, I'm very respectful to the person I am with whether she is there or not. I'm not desperate I just wanted to try something maybe a little different so that's why my headline is Start Slow please. I'm not looking for money I have my own and a good job. I'm also not looking to support anybody right now and I'm not the guy that's going to save your jobless but from living at your moms with your five kids, even though I love kids. I would just like to meet a nice woman and hopefully it will turn into something more.
The last girl I dated I would've given anything for her but she couldn't let go of all the things that are ex-husband did to her and unfortunately she was really hurt by him so she was constantly on the defense and guarded her heart. I know A year is not a long time but it feels like forever when you start having feelings and nothing is moving forward. I'm very patient when I feel like it's worth the wait ,but there has to be a line between patients and wasting your time. I own my own place and I Live by myself. I also have a Lakehouse in Lagrange Georgia on West Point . It might be the military and me but I believe respect, loyalty and honesty play a huge role in a relationship. If there is Something that makes you feel uncomfortable or uneasy I will do my best to make sure you don't feel that way. Everybody has different opinions in what they believe and that is fine. Respecting your significant other is not a factor of being controlled or controlling. I believe it's more about doing everything you can in your heart and your soul to make sure that the person you love or like does not feel like an outcast or uncomfortable in whatever environment y'all are in. I believe that there needs to be a total give-and-take attitude between each other.
I have a very protective personality but don't confuse that with jealousy. Protective is more about making sure you're safe and respected by other people. This goes for everybody that I'm friends with or dating. I don't tolerate people who act one way around a person but just because the group feels another way about them they keep their mouth shut or even join in. Your beliefs and your morals and what you feel is Who you are. I am the type of Guy that makes the person that I'm dating feel like part of the family. If I choose the date you it's because how I feel about you I Will not hide from my friends and family. I believe if you have to do that then something is not right. I will also tell you I'm not going to play games. I did when I was younger That's not who I am or what I want now. If My heart gets involved I will keep trying and trying to make things work, but when I have exhausted every option and things still don't change or get better then I will leave. I don't understand the whole with somebody one minute not with Them the next minute in the back with them. I wish everybody good luck on here because everybody deserves to be happy and have that special someone to care about Please don't take this as a sad guy who lost his girl. That was a while back and there's no chance of her and I getting back together. I made the Decision to end it after a long time of walking on egg shells because she has been through so much with her EX. Chivalry is not dead and I truly believe that a man should respect a woman and a woman should respect her man. One girl told me that my profile seemed scripted. Trust me it's not scripted just written from the heart.
I did not get on the site to find it or even look for Mrs. right. I didn't come on here thinking I would find Love at first sight or the perfect woman. I believe there is that one special person out there for everyone but if you spend your whole life searching for that person may pass up another opportunity that can make you really happy. Also if you're looking for perfection good luck you'll probably be single rest your life. So with that being said, I'm looking for somebody that I enjoy being around that I find attractive. I am attracted to motivated and ambitious women that take care of themselves, I have a good self-esteem but are not****. I also believe that as an individual sometimes we are tested on our choices so the person that seems like the perfect person May not be. So I'm looking for someone who wants to hang out start slow get to know each other and see if we get along. If there's chemistry we will go from there .
I think everyone has some type of issue but if you have serious issues and you know it you should fix them before you try to get involved with somebody.
I understand you may not be happy in your marriages and since this seems to be a regular thing I have to add this disclaimer:
*****I DO NOT DATE MARRIED WOMEN GET DIVORCED FIRST THEN WE CAN TALK! *****
Personal quote-----I wish I had a girl to put with my country song.
PS… If your screen name is Glittergirl69 you should not be offended if I ask if you're a stripper!
On The first date I think it should be a public place maybe some dinner. I don't want to be a real loud place because I'd like to talk to you get to know you little bit. If were having fun and are both feeling it maybe we can go somewhere A little more happening. I'd like for the first date to be a very low-pressure date almost like two friends meeting. Neither one of us should feel bad about feeling like there's not a connection. I would never be rude and I would never expect the person I meeting to be there. If there's no connection there's no connection it's okay. We finish dinner or whatever were doing I'll pay it we go our separate ways with no hard feelings. The worst thing that could happen is we made a new friend.