I've noticed since I have become more mature(that is what I will call it), I have become more free. I know what is important to me and I don't stress over the little things that do not matter. I can't stand drama unless I am watching it in a movie or at the theater. Life happens to all of us. We decide what we do with it.
Please know that if you intend to speak to me about sex and are in your 20's I will not respond. You can become as nasty as you prefer but your comments do not matter to me :-)