Eric was the first guy to message me on this site and I thought he was boring, quiet, short and fat. I was such a judgmental snob. I still emailed him because I was lonely and wanted people to talk to. After dating a few losers and a couple of psychos I decided I just wanted someone to talk to. Someone that didn't ask about my bra size or immediately want to hook up and I found Eric again. After lots and lots and lots and lots and lots of talking I found that he's nowhere near boring, absolutely hilarious and that his picture was just a terrible picture, he was actually extremely tall and gorgeous. When I stopped looking for what I thought I wanted, I found what I needed. After dating for 2 months we were engaged and it's been amazing every since, our children adore each other and my parents think he hung the moon. Turns out the quiet boring guy was actually just respecting me, strange that I couldn't recognize that after dealing with so many losers over the years. I didn't know a relationship could be like this.