I contacted him twice before he emailed back!!! It was worth every second waiting! I Finally met my perfect match! We talked on POF for about 2 weeks. Then we exchanged email addresses and connected that way for a week! Then we exchanged cell phone numbers and spoke almost 40 hours in 2 weeks! We finally decided to meet in person in Portland, Maine on a Sunday in July! I met one of his daughters that day and he met my Mom that very same day too! We went to church that morning and we couldn't take our eyes off each other!!! He has the most amazing blue eyes with beige/blonde hair and a red goatee!!! Todd is a strong, tall man and I just adore him! He is my computer nerd which converts to "Intellectual Badass"! That he is and I love every ounce of him! We got married on 8-7-2010 and have been inseparable since that day in July 2009! I know without a doubt that He feels the same way about me! We are happy to have had POF.COM to get connected! We even had our wedding theme as "catching my man" since I hooked him!!! The cake topper is a porcelain bride with a fishing pole with the hook through the pants of the groom who's on all fours!