I had been on Match.com and payed for 6 months with lots of dinners, but no luck. Then I joined eharmony, paid for 3 months, no luck. A coworker told me about this site, I figured it wouldn't be as serious as the others. I joined, got quite a bit of response, Jeff emailed me the first time and I blew him off because he was a little bit younger than me. A month later he emailed me again and I forgot why I never answered him, I emailed him back. Couldn't figure out why I had denied him before and then realized why. Since I had already agreed to go on a date I didn't try too hard to impress. Apparently that impressed him enough, the first date led to another and another and now we're married and I can't believe this came from a free dating site.