for a year i paid for memberships to all the top dating sites,like eharmony,and found nothing but scammers,cam-girls,lairs and cheaters,i even was scammed for several thousand dollars..i was just about to give up and except being single and alone for the rest of my life,and i came across POF which was free to my surprise.i had never seen a totaly free site.i gave it a try.and at first there was something wrong i wasnt able to reply to responders to my profile.totaly disgusted i re-entered my profile,received a message that i was easy on the eyes.checked her profile responded,and here we are now married almost 2 1/2yrs