First and foremost...
Please stop messaging me if you are under 30.........
I just re-did my profile. I know it's long. But, it's more vulnerable and revealing. Maybe it will resonate with you. I am not about the quantity of men that message me... I am about the quality.
Ultimately I am looking for a best friend and confidant. Someone that has had some life experience and is ready for more... Someone to make a deep intimate connection with - something special... Someone like minded that wants the quiet times as much as the adventure. There is mutual love, respect and admiration and we strive to bring out the best in each other... Someone fun yet mature, healthy, financially stable and happy in general. A man that is strong yet sensitive is super sexy. Ideally we love doing some activities together and talking... Communication is key... Someone who still believes in love and relationship and has a positive image about women and relationships in general and is ready to take that journey with me.
Day to day I am strong, confident and very active... I want that safe place to land where I can be soft, vulnerable and me. Feminine and giving... without having to worry or protect myself. I want to connect and share all of me... Not just the industry leader or social butterfly... but, the quiet and feminine side too... Not everyone gets that part of me... just as not everyone gets the sensual side either. Those are gifts that I save for my partner.
I am tactile, sensual... but very selective. I love to touch and connect with my partner. I love the unspoken communication. Cuddling and holding hands... The laughing... there has to be a lot of laughing... I enjoy being part of a pair. I know that it is possible to have an extraordinary relationship and connection. Still..... I am willing to wait for the right person.
I will add that those things that I listed don't happen overnight. Connection and closeness: physical and emotional ... take time.
I believe in creating the life that you want and not sitting back and letting it just happen.
My life is so varied and so are my interests. I definitely work to be able to play and enjoy life.... It's all about quality of life and experiences for me...
I grew up in the country, love living in the city... have lived all over the county... and traveled the world (at least some of it... so much more to see)... This gives me a broad perspective about people and life in general. I am non-judgmental and tend to find the positives in people and situations.
I would say that I am an experiencer. I enjoy experiencing life. I can get out and have fun doing something new OR I can sit comfortably in silence. I tend to be present no matter where I am at or what I am doing… I find pleasure in things large and small…. Not rushing… just paying attention and finding joy in the moment.
I am an extrovert. But, quiet time is as important as the parties and socializing... I need time removed to recharge my batteries and do things to feed my soul. Not necessarily by myself. Creating balance is very important.
***Did I mention that I am fun... Live in the moment... laugh easily... am a bit irreverent and have a mischievous streak?***